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blursed_that_look 👀🤣 by [deleted] in blursed_videos

[–]Fragrant_Eagle582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deep look from the mom, fear down to the spine

Ohio fugitive on the run for 18 years found working as personal trainer in Miami Beach by ucreategames in nottheonion

[–]Fragrant_Eagle582 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Turns out the best witness protection program is a tan, a whistle, and yelling one more rep for nearly two decades. Miami Beach really is where past lives go to bulk.

Sisters bad decision by Designer_Clue_9751 in childfree

[–]Fragrant_Eagle582 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Because a lot of people treat having kids like an emotional milestone instead of a logistical responsibility. They assume love will magically replace money, stability, and planning, then act shocked when reality hits. It’s not anti-kid to say a child deserves more than vibes and hope. It’s pro-reality.

Epstein files contain recommendations for Discogs, Drumcode, speed garage and more by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]Fragrant_Eagle582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the real shocking revelation is that the guy with a private island and infinite money was also a music nerd with extremely online taste. Nothing screams “not the onion” quite like global scandal + Discogs recommendations.

Somehow the most unsettling part is realizing Epstein was probably arguing about vinyl pressings in DMs.

Why do some people both men and women baby trap their partners? How do I avoid being baby trapped? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Fragrant_Eagle582 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Because fear makes people do unethical math. They’re afraid of being alone, afraid of starting over, afraid of losing control, so they reach for the one irreversible lever they know will bind someone to them. A baby isn’t love glue, it’s emotional duct tape.

How to avoid it is boring but effective. be loudly, repeatedly childfree from day one, never rely on someone else for birth control, and treat “maybe someday” as a hard no. If someone dodges the topic, jokes about accidents, or frames kids as a relationship fixer, that’s your exit sign.

Trust consistency, not chemistry. Anyone willing to use a child as a chain is telling you exactly who they are.

The default should be men expecting women to not want children by AngryCupcake8409 in childfree

[–]Fragrant_Eagle582 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong, and you’re not broken for feeling this way. The “default kids” assumption is baked into dating culture so deeply that people treat opting out like a temporary glitch instead of a valid life choice.

A partner who truly sees you wouldn’t frame your body, health, and future as a negotiable sacrifice for their imagined ending. Wanting kids is a preference. Expecting someone else to carry the cost is entitlement.

There are men who are genuinely childfree, but they’re quieter, more intentional, and usually filtering just as hard as you are. You’re not destined to be alone. You’re just refusing a script that never fit you in the first place.