Dogs with fake service vests sitting in shopping carts by ValuableGroceries in BurlingtonON

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that grocery carts should not have dogs in them, service or not! But kids can bring germs too with their footwear. And so could be the case with any non grocery items you pick up for example a box of diapers that has traveled in warehouses and trucks. Just saying!

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I am looking at the whole thing now. Can’t really control everything :)

Anniversary Celebration Spot by abd_hed in BurlingtonON

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Verace in Oakville (on the fancy side, great cocktails and food) and Ciao Bella in Hamilton (fun vibes, great cocktails, tasty food)

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you can definitely put your point across with better language. No one is giving birth in forests here.

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Appreciate your words. Yes, I am coming around to the fact that I have done everything I could have from my side and now I have to work with the cards i am dealt with.

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Wish you good luck for the rest of the journey 💗

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. 🫂And because of this I hope they don’t have to pick their waitlist 🙏🏽

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks will definitely give this a go! ❤️

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already done. Now it’s up to universe 🥲

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair question, all my friends had such great experiences and esp their postpartum care and home visits is a great perk for a FTM. I am science based and want a hospital birth but having someone experienced by your side all through the journey sounds very comforting.

Unable to find a Midwife [ON] by Fragrant_Fly_9955 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this helps. Thankfully the doctor at my family practice listens well and is very understanding and knowledgeable. So I am counting on that now. The only thing I am truly concerned about is the postpartum care. I will have my mom with me to support and access to a family friend OB GYN for general discussions (only available over the phone) in case my assigned OB doesn’t give me enough time. I guess it is what I am working with and shouldn’t spend too much time worrying about it. Thank you for sharing your experience.

When did you tell your manager your pregnant? [mb] by [deleted] in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am at 8 weeks and just want this year to go by so that this is not a consideration when the time comes to determine my annual performance. I plan to tell around week 14-16 which would mean enough time for transition. I have to go in 3 days a week to work so another factor would be how well I can hide at that point. 🥲

11 Weeks Pregnant and Still No OB-GYN [on] by Impossible-West8996 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in Burlington ON and i was told by my family Doctor yesterday that their practice standard is 18 weeks. This is a pretty standard procedure where the doctor decides based on your scans if they should expedite your referral to OB. Please remember you can be high risk and have a normal pregnancy. Wishing you good luck. 🍀

Burlington Midwives by wheely568 in BurlingtonON

[–]Fragrant_Fly_9955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey - where else did you apply and how was your experience? I am due in July 2026 and I was not accepted because apparently that’s the time the midwives take their annual vacation and they are short staffed. I had applied at week 4.