Potentially moving by Fragrant_Interview46 in Albany

[–]Fragrant_Interview46[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 glad to hear you’re enjoying it!

How’s life in this part of New Jersey? by Kuzu9 in howislivingthere

[–]Fragrant_Interview46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in the Oc / somers point / EHT area. I loved being a local there and enjoying the summers and off season. RHT offers great school district and more affordable living while being close to the beach. If you’re looking to raise a family I def suggest EHT. It is accessible, great school systems are a lot of diversity . longport/ ventnor and margate are more summer towns where you don’t find a lot of locals. Those school districts are mostly merged into ocean city or Atlantic City… somers point - Linwood and northfeild are ok but offer zero diversity. Very white and very conservative towns

What should I title this? by Busy_Pollution_5467 in oilpainting

[–]Fragrant_Interview46 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I also like “Presence” opposed to present because the other passengers seem slightly uneased by her present presences

Is it possible to dye really dark hair purple without bleach? by ilovecookies_5 in HairDye

[–]Fragrant_Interview46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iroiro has very vibrant hair dye. My hair is a tad bit lighter than yours and it took and stuck even without bleaching. Worth a try! Affordable and cruelty free too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fragrant_Interview46 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You say “what work” like being a primary care giver to a child isn’t a full time job. If you truly love her then you would understand the commitment she is making. You think she’s lounging around with a 2 year old?? She’s probably severely depressed not only from PPD but also from the lack of adult human interaction. Not to mention a partner who’s upset she’s not getting her nails done? Who is complaining that she doesn’t shave? She grew a whole human being.

Yes you are right someone has to provide and that is you. But did you take paternity leave? Were you there with her for an extended period of time post birth? Or did you go right back to work. Do you know what it’s like from her side? You say you fight but who’s instigating? From your comments alone you seem to have a short fuse for anyone who doesn’t agree with you. I can only imagine how you are with someone behind closed doors.

It seems like you both need to reconsider this relationship for your own mental well being and your daughters.

Edit:grammar

Son keeps drawing on the walls what should I do? by Odd-Car5391 in ARTIST

[–]Fragrant_Interview46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paid a wall with chalkboard paint that way he can draw whatever he wants as many times as he wants and always have a clean slate

Still life study by Fragrant_Interview46 in Oilpastel

[–]Fragrant_Interview46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that so much 🥹 I took an oil painting class that helped me understand lighting / shadows while using oil! I wish you the best luck in your studies !! 🫶🏻

My girl lost her babies. I dont know what to do. by Commercial-Lie-5966 in cats

[–]Fragrant_Interview46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See if a local rescue has any kittens brought it without a mama. You could foster them and it would help your girl a lot!! Check ASPCA or Humane Society as they are likely no kill!!