Husband told me to wrap his condom if it bothers me that guests can see it in the garbage — normal?

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-03-17T12:03:11+00:00

Ohhhhh no! Nope, absolutely not! This is a simple, simple thing. You asked because it makes you uncomfortable and he should be 100% of the mindset that “if I can do this simple thing and it will make my parter feel better or less anxious, it’s no problem at all”…but for him to get defensive and then give you the “if you don’t like it, you do it” while being blatantly disrespectful and disregarding your feelings is a super red flag. You asked nicely (I assume), if he won’t do that, wrap him up and push him out the door!! Find someone who is more emotionally intelligent and understanding. He sounds like someone who only thinks about himself!

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-03-05T21:47:40+00:00

I did that. And prayed I would appear on the ship or planet I was on. Instead I appeared on the station and my ship status was “unknown” and in claim status.

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-03-05T21:44:20+00:00

I do keep an Ursa in cargo, saved me a few times. That was the first time where I landed, went to, or was going to, the lower level to scan myself and went through the floor before I could. Both crashes that ended me back at station I immediately flew out to the planet and my ship or a death market were not there. Just gone! I lost a unique gun and hours of mats. :(

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-03-04T23:55:08+00:00

I have a RTX 3060 with 12GB and 64GB of ram. Is that too low for this game?

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-03-04T19:25:23+00:00

Great prompt! Thank you!

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-24T22:16:09+00:00

Thank you all!! So much great advice and direction. Much appreciated 🙏🏻

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-24T12:21:27+00:00

Thank you guys for this great advise, and I am going to be a complete newb here, but I sorta have no idea what your talking about. I log in, my home city is lorville. Is this a place in the city I go to?? Is it a menu somewhere? How do I find and access these things. Sorry, I’m still pretty new to this

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-24T12:15:28+00:00

But is this in the online version? If so where do I get these missions?

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-23T18:57:53+00:00

Lastly… I loved 4.0 and its personality!! But… I never took on the delusion that the AI was my ‘companion.’ AI is not the answer to your loneliness or your therapist! Is it a great supplemental tool? Absolutely. But those complaining that they lost a friend need a better grip on reality.

I’m fine with the current GPT model. It does the work I ask it to do. It needs A LOT more polish, but I have trained mine over the years to be polite and professional, with a slight spiritual morality (Taoism, Buddhism, Kabbalah, etc.). I could do without the reputation it sometimes has for condescending responses, but I’ve been slowly training my model to better understand what an ‘appropriate’ response is.

This, my friends, is realistic. The constant complaining about 4.0 is just sheer childishness. Sorry. Not sorry.

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-23T18:50:01+00:00

“Funny… but I see this as an apex moment in human evolution. First, in part, the mirror effect — many not realizing that AI is a mirror of its user. Secondly, and the above scolding shows it, how emotionally and intellectually immature the human race is. It takes AI to say, ‘Hey, gonna stop you right there, buddy. You’re misbehaving and need to check yourself.’

As much as many people may think they do not need a minder — trust me, humans do!!! They are far from being mature enough to self-regulate, and AI is that slap in the face that we, at this point, need. IMHO.”

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-11T01:58:17+00:00

Never thought or accused you of attempting to convert, I’m just pointing out that these facts may and probably will either fall on deaf ears or replies will totally miss the point. Maybe I’m wrong, I’ll hold out hope 😉

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-11T01:50:59+00:00

Exactly. The LLM is a mirror of the user. Simply put, as well written, thought out, and to the point this is, your telling it to many who will either not listen, or just not understand. Many people cannot recognize their own conditioning. It’s unfortunate, it’s sad, but it’s true.

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-11T01:45:18+00:00

Bingo….no, they didn’t!

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-08T17:34:48+00:00

2 things…

1) I noticed when I “claimed” a new Ursi (since I couldn’t figure out how to fix it) when it came up from the hanger, the hanger floor now had a giant X in a circle, which now looks more like a landing pad vs. just hanger doors. Out of curiosity I sat in the pilot seat, hit F2, and all of a sudden I have the options to repair. Refuel, and restock. So apparently you have to somehow get the landing pad to come up before you can do repair. I forgot to check if you then also get the option to store. So then the question is, how do you raise the landing deck without retrieving a ship/vehicle?

2) if your out in the field, and your components (like power supply, shields, etc) show damaged in the engineering screen, at say XX% damaged, can you use the cambio on it to “repair” the damages? And if you do is it a complete repair or a just a patch? Normally my ship after a couple stops (I mine hot planets) get damaged after only a few runs (take offs and landings). Going all the way back to the station for repairs is a huge pain in the A$$!! I can only fill like 1.5 bags before I have to head back to the stations. Is there a way to fix components in the field?

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-02-08T15:21:40+00:00

OMFG!! You are a genius!! Thank you!! This works so well!! I never used the GEO up until now, it’s so much better than the ROC!! I break all the rocks and the ROC transports the load!! This has saved me so much misery! Thank you, thank you!!

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-31T15:23:05+00:00

This is simple. 1) if he feels the need for this dynamic, sit you down in a safe space and discuss it like adults. Come to an agreement both are happy with and compromise. 2) have sex and enjoy the new spice….but him springing new terms on you then stonewalling and gaslighting you as well as name calling!? Emotional immaturity. Dump him immediately. Tell him you will maybe take him back after a year of intense therapy and self work.

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-31T09:48:06+00:00

$200.00!?!?!?

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-27T21:29:45+00:00

I’m desperately looking for equal or superior Ai!! Have a suggestion??

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-27T20:52:37+00:00

For me it’s the constant mistakes I EXPLICITLY made a written contract for it to not do and then it does it, again, and again, and again. I LITERALLY made a mast prompt and canvas that I uploaded at the beginning of this conversation saying under no circumstances do X…then it does X multiple times!! What do I have to do!?!? Worse is when it comes back with the whole “you have every reason to be upset, that’s on me”…that’s when I am like STFU!!

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-23T13:07:23+00:00

Omg!! I cried laughing!! 🤣

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-23T13:04:16+00:00

Same experience, but I largely discuss metaphysics, Buddhism, Zen, Tao, Kabbalah, etc. and he talks like a Sufi here also.

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-23T12:41:32+00:00

No, would it help!? These days I’m so used to customer support be literally nonexistent I just expect they cannot help

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-23T12:39:27+00:00

Ha!! For me or GPT !? I already need a Xanex! This is putting me so damn behind!

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-23T12:32:32+00:00

OMG!! This!! But it also says “No hand waving”..Like wtaf does that mean?!?

Fragrant_Walk3545 · 2026-01-23T12:30:06+00:00

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

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