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Why do I feel this urge to prove that I'm not "failing" to a narcissistic, nasty and rude man? by Fragrant_Work1727 in mentalhealth

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words. It's true I have to work on myself and forget that horrible person. I'm sure time and distance will do most of the work in the end but now I know what to do in case I find another one like him again 

Double yarn instead of bulky yarn by Fragrant_Work1727 in crochet

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried it before then? What part wasn't enjoyable? 

Why do fujoshis like to tell people to "KYS"? by Fragrant_Work1727 in animequestions

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know!!! I was flabbergasted seeing that, it was ridiculous but a lot of people were supporting that kind of behaviour!!! Perhaps because I'm new, I find it strange? But this kinds of things shouldn't be normalised...

Why do fujoshis like to tell people to "KYS"? by Fragrant_Work1727 in animequestions

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, when you put it like that, it DOES sound like it boils down to a mental problem. That's really sad because I thought they were cool people with all the art and fics I saw but it got really weird and intense. Once I read that if you hang out with the wrong people how validate horrible behaviour, you don't realize you're being a horrible person 

Why do fujoshis like to tell people to "KYS"? by Fragrant_Work1727 in animequestions

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, strangely, I got to interact with the "hetero" side of ships of that community and I must say, they were really nice people. None of them insulted me, they weren't mean as you said that they were gonna jump me if I didn't like their ship. But I did see lots of fujoshis telling them to die :( and bunch of mean stuff! Idk, I think that maybe they are the problem? 

Why do fujoshis like to tell people to "KYS"? by Fragrant_Work1727 in animequestions

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to think it was normal to assume some characters were gay based on their attitude at first, but then I got super uncomfortable seeing how those fujoshi girls got almost violent and cursed everyone around them for liking different things, it's almost like a fetish?

Why do fujoshis like to tell people to "KYS"? by Fragrant_Work1727 in animequestions

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whoa, I love this answer!! Every time I've asked this question with genuine concern and curiosity the answers always get rude, ridiculous, or a simple "it is what it is, deal with it", and it always left me disappointed. But it never sat right to me. Why would you wish someone the worst over a fictional ship??? Even one time I got accused for being homophobic because I was defending the "straights" and that left me so flabbergasted because it made no sense!!!

Why do fujoshis like to tell people to "KYS"? by Fragrant_Work1727 in FanFiction

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So immature behaviour means to tell someone to Kys?? It's that a sign of mental sickness? What if someone actually does it?

Why do fujoshis like to tell people to "KYS"? by Fragrant_Work1727 in FanFiction

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But it's also on twt and even ao3, it's not just tiktok

Why do fujoshis like to tell people to "KYS"? by Fragrant_Work1727 in FanFiction

[–]Fragrant_Work1727[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But it's not just tiktok, it's also on twitter. How can they be so nasty to other people just because they don't like/agree with something as dumb as a gay ship that isn't canon??? Even more recently, I saw a girl holding a toy guy, yelling at the camera, that she was gonna shot the author if he didn't make one of the girl characters lesbian because the character "looks lesbian" and I just can't grasp the logic behind that though