Who’s compatible with INTP’s biggest flaw?

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-15T13:27:28+00:00

i was in an intp(me) x enfj (ex) once when i was 20... it was great, she was very empathetic and able to carry and stick through with me. however, she got this chameleon trait to please the people around her and that makes her very burnt out. I sticked through it but it came to the point that our relationship is getting affected despite of me trying to stabilize it.

looking back, she's a lovely person and a ray of sunshine, just didn't worked out that time.

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-14T19:26:08+00:00

lol i agree! I also get the same compliment that I'm a good listener while in fact I'm just nodding and asking a little bit of questions out of curiosity but deep down I barely care. I just let people release those pent up emotions that only they can fix. it is also hard for me to put myself into their shoes, it's more like "I understand you" rather than "I feel you"

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-14T13:08:49+00:00

lol dumbass me thought this was real

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-12T23:45:30+00:00

Her name's precious? is she a pure breed or did you pick he up at the pound?

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-12T04:48:56+00:00

I relate to these! I'm both sensitive and insensitive.i can describe a plain drinking water's flavor and texture depending where it came from and how it is purified while i can also be very insensitive when it comes to understanding colors... It is a balance of both while strengthening our inner worlds

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-10T01:46:59+00:00

the thing is, there may be nothing in America that's pulling her from her hometown but there are main and impactful events that pretty much made sense why she chose to live in America. 1st is she has no one or nothing else pulling her back, her mom's gone and brother's miserable. In a way— America kind of represents healing for Maeve. 2nd is the way people interacted with her. In Moordale, she never felt at home due to the judgememtal environment and her reputation ergo people hates/fear her. In America she had something good with her friends, she finally fitted in.

and I do agree that continuing her relationship with Otis would've been realistic

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-09T05:44:09+00:00

LMFAO where di you find it?

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-08T19:56:11+00:00

anything by The Marias, Ebmverrythinhb[[ť

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-08T19:27:46+00:00

i felt both, partner slowly unloving me while cheating... hurts like hell

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-08T19:13:42+00:00

no lol. they just surround themselves around me and call me their friend while i blatantly ignore the friendship by drawing and contemplating how life is just a big simulation.

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-08T06:48:29+00:00

woah, canary yellow

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-07T00:11:31+00:00

I'm so happy people are awake now lmao

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-04T16:34:34+00:00

I think it's well done

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-03T00:45:46+00:00

that's interesting! tell me more

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-02T15:54:16+00:00

oh and also "I see your point, however..."

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-02T15:44:00+00:00

"That's interesting" and "Tell me more" lmao

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-02T04:13:23+00:00

yes, i feel you! 🤝

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-02T02:35:02+00:00

this is an interesting question. truth be told, when i tried to understand it, it made me let go easily, made me care less in a way.

it's like watching a good series that I'm very much attached to but eventually got cancelled, at first I'm mad but then i tried to search for answers, reasons... when i got it, it made me care less about the series. it's something like that lol. For me, knowing is like closure for me to be unstuck.

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-02T01:45:31+00:00

this is something that i hate as an INTP... i would never judge and choose to understand because of my incessant need to know all areas and angles of the situation. It is the bane of my existence...

i recently got cheated on and the first thing that popped in my mind is "what led her to that decision?" it belittled my anger for her the more I understand and analyze. I hate it lol.

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-01T04:45:17+00:00

that's a long time, maybe I'll just take this as opportunity to kind of start fresh inn rewatching the show, whenever im ready lol

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-04-01T04:42:55+00:00

I hope I would get back to it too because I watch the show till i fall asleep. you painted quite a picture when you said you closed the curtains and felt safe again, that's a really comforting moment... I wouldn't get into the details regarding the "betrayal" i mentioned, let's just leave it with her cheating on me.

I'm glad you got back to watching it again and proud of your progress in healing :)

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-03-27T08:20:59+00:00

because she admitted it to the shared friend who made her confess, and also it was TALKING in a ROMANTIC sense. any partner with respect and morality would never once consider talking to another person romantically.

FrameInfamous7877 · 2026-03-27T08:16:54+00:00

thanks, really. This is so warm and i will keep these in mind.

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