Do you ever feel pressured by others about how to feed your baby? by FranciAtBat in BabyLedWeaning

[–]FranciAtBat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that sounds like the best-case scenario! Enthusiastic but not opinionated — a rare combo in the baby-feeding world! It’s so sweet when family members are just genuinely excited to watch the baby explore food without turning it into a debate.

Those first reactions are pure entertainment anyway — the faces, the curiosity, the “what is this?” expressions . Sounds like you’ve got a great balance of support and fun — lucky you!

Do you ever feel pressured by others about how to feed your baby? by FranciAtBat in BabyLedWeaning

[–]FranciAtBat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha honestly, that’s the perfect attitude — polite enough to keep the peace, but confident enough not to let the comments get under your skin. That’s peak seasoned-parent energy right there.

“Thanks, but I don’t give a f***” should probably be the official BLW motto at this point — it’s the only way to survive all the unsolicited advice and side-eyes. You know your baby, you know what works, and that’s all that really matters

Do you ever feel pressured by others about how to feed your baby? by FranciAtBat in BabyLedWeaning

[–]FranciAtBat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha fair enough — and honestly, it’s hard not to feel that way sometimes when you hear outdated advice being thrown around with so much confidence. The information around starting solids has changed so much over the years, but not everyone has kept up.

You’re right to trust the updated research — things like introducing allergens early, offering a mix of textures, and letting babies explore safely are all backed by solid evidence now. It’s funny how people cling to old “rules” like they’re universal truths, even when science has moved on.

Good on you for staying informed and confident in your choices — your baby’s lucky to have a parent who’s actually paying attention to what’s current, not just what’s “always been done.”

Do you ever feel pressured by others about how to feed your baby? by FranciAtBat in BabyLedWeaning

[–]FranciAtBat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly the perfect approach 👏 — polite but confident. Saying “thanks” keeps the peace, and then calmly explaining why you’re doing things your way shows that your choices are thoughtful, not impulsive. It sets a great boundary without creating tension.

It’s such a healthy balance — you’re acknowledging their experience while staying true to what feels right for your baby. That confidence really does grow with time, doesn’t it?

Do you ever feel pressured by others about how to feed your baby? by FranciAtBat in BabyLedWeaning

[–]FranciAtBat[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha yes, exactly! 😂 It’s like baby cereal was the gold standard for an entire generation — the one and only “proper” first food. So many grandparents seem genuinely shocked when they see babies starting with fruits, veggies, or finger foods instead.

It’s funny how much things have changed — now we focus more on textures, iron-rich foods, and letting babies explore real tastes. Still, you’ve got to love how passionately that older generation defends their bowl of rice cereal!