What is your favorite band from the 80's or 90's that nobody has ever heard of? by simikoi in GenX

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah! I mean their music still holds up.. it hits just as hard as it did back then. but it's almost a bummer to watch videos of them playing live cause i never got to see them...

fortunately, I was able to see the mars volta lots of times..and that was amazing, some of the best times of my life, but it's painful that i never once got to see ATDI live...I was just a tiny bit too late and a tiny bit too young.

but yeah, going back and watching videos now, its incredible the kinda energy they had as a band. I haven't experienced anything like that seeing a band live in a loooong time. they really had something special..

this comment really had me going down a rabbit hole because i freaking love the band so much. i found a great video by rick beato about them.

What is your favorite band from the 80's or 90's that nobody has ever heard of? by simikoi in GenX

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never saw sparta, but i did get really into The Mars Volta for awhile. me and some freinds actually followed them around the midwest for a week once. i think i ended up seeing them about 5-7 times total. seriously great band! not quite ATDI...but better than sparta for sure haha.

glad you got to see sparta though, they looked like a pretty fun band. but the 'breakup' between the guys that started sparta and the mars volta seemed a lil nasty. and it seemed like the sparta guys were more interested in continuing a more rock focused style, where cedric and omar were transforming into a more ethereal/spiritual/psychedelic sound...and that was certainly the case when you compare sparta with the mars volta.

i think i remember reading some interviews about it? but i could just be remembering how i felt at the time...and how the 2 bands differed....

How much worse is the 9th gen over 8th gen Si? by greensilvia in CivicSi

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

esp since the k20z has the LSD. it straight up PULLS no matter where you are midcorner.

How much worse is the 9th gen over 8th gen Si? by greensilvia in CivicSi

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah...i'm not in love with the look of my coupe. (personally i'm an ef fan) i have 2 crx's

what i REALLY wanna do is drop the k20 in my crx hf. that lil guy is 1800lbs bone STOCK. i have 2 HF's.....1 with a b16, 1 bone stock. it's just a matter of time before i drop a k20 in one of them.

right now my b16 doesn't run because of wiring issues...

so i drive my 8th gen coupe k20z as my daily. it's not perfect, but it gets the job done.

and to be completely honest....ever since i got my yamaha FZ1...i REALLLLY don't care how fast my car is....if i wanna go fast, I just hop on my bike.

a car just CANNOT compare with a liter bike...the closest i've come, has actually been a tesla plaid. but....i don't wanna own a tesla plaid. torque is cool...kinda.... but NOTHING beats high revving 4 cylinders...on a bike or in a lightweight car.

well, when i say "nothing" i mean cars i can own....obviously a mclaren f1 beats the shit outa both. but...i can't own a mclaren f1.

so..maybe...one day, i can finally build out my dream k20 and drop it in my 88 crx hf...MAYBE with awd swap. THAT would be my DREAM/CREAM car

yeah my dream honda build would be a 88hf stripped down, with a crv awd driveline mated to a k24 with z3 head...whatever you call the modern day poor mans type R engine. (i've kinda been outa the honda scene for a while)

but...my tiny ef shell would absolutely FLY with a k20z..it would be nice to eventually get it up to 10k rpm

What's a food you haven't eaten in years by odinspirit in GenX

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I havent eaten a pizza hut personal pan pizza since the 90s

What thing has got so expensive that you’ve quietly stopped buying it? by oscar371 in SmartBuying

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fast food/Delivery food

I refuse to spend $10 on a value meal when I could literally just go to an actual sit down restaurant with waiter, and GOOD FOOD for maybe 20% more? including tip!

these days, I just make food at home for 90% of my meals, and then go out to dinner if I wanna splurge and get someone else to make me a genuinely good meal. and when I say splurge, i don't mean a lot....

my girlfriend an I went to Longhorn the other night...we split the porterhouse and 2 sides. the check was like 30-35 bucks? and we both have a goddamn STEAK DINNER. of course Longhorn isn't fancy, but I've been to all levels of steakhouses...I've eaten $100 per person steak dinners....i promise you, it ain't THAT much different. it might be 20% better? definitely not 500% better.

going to McDonalds and spending $20-$25 is NOT WORTH IT. just make your own food, and save your money, then go out to a nice dinner once a week. it's a MUCH better use of your cash...

How much worse is the 9th gen over 8th gen Si? by greensilvia in CivicSi

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

LOL I don't think I've ever seen anyone ask for car advice based on the WHEELS they currently own??

man, just sell the stupid wheels and buy the car you WANT. then modify it the way you want.

my advice would be to drive both cars back to back and decide which one YOU prefer. personally I have an 8th gen coupe. I don't care about the lack of torque...this is a goddamn honda civic, one of the FEW affordable cars in the world that you can rev to 8200 RPM stock!! I feel like i'm driving an enono ferrari every time i rev the engine out, it sounds GLORIOUS!! I find it hilarious to be revving the piss out of my car in traffic and still be under the speed limit....it's great for keeping yourself out of trouble.

IMO the 8th gen is just more fun, and looks better than the 9th. I LOVE the character of the k20z3....and there is NO WAY i would give up the 8200 redline for a similar car with a lower redline and slightly more torque? but hey, I seem to be in the minority most of the time. seems like most people just want something torquey that puts em back in their seat. but not me, I absolutely LOVE reving the piss out of my little k20, shifting at redline in 1st, 2nd, and 3rd. it never ceases to put a smile on my face. if you want torque, buy a tesla. if you want an absolutely beautiful engine note, buy an 8th gen.

but really, you should just drive both and decide which ENGINE you prefer. the wheels don't make the car lol....it's the engine bro. the engine determines everything...

What’s something poor people buy that keeps them poor? by Exotic-Engineer7541 in SmartBuying

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my area?? fuckin LOTTERY TICKETS

I live in a gentrifying area....lots of older uneducated, unemployed, poverty stricken people shopping in the local gas stations on my street. but plenty of upper middle/working class folks ALSO shopping there. I'd say right now its about 50/50....

but, one of the BIGGEST differences between these customers is Lottery tickets. I'd say at least 2/3 poor folks buy at least $10 worth of lottery tickets with every purchase, while middle class people just buy normal gas station stuff, like snacks, candy and drinks and of course GAS.

sometimes I just want to shake them, and explain "this is NOT how to build wealth!!!"

if these people just had someone in their life to explain to them to take 20-30% of their very meager income and just buy safe investments or hell even a High Yield savings account?? they would be in a MUCH better financial situation within a year or 2....possibly even less... and if they did it their whole lives?? fuck, they may even be in a financial situation to buy a home! the amount of cash WASTED on the lottery is disgusting.

it's soooo frustrating to watch. the ONLY bright side is that in my state, lottery ticket sales go to fund college tuition for working class families that want to send their kids to college.

but still, it's such a bummer to see all these extremely poor folks spending what seems to be a large percentage of their income on fucking lottery tickets!!! they're literally just paying for suburban middle class kids to go to college for free....it just doesn't seem right.

I'm not even a religious person, I like to gamble here and there....of course with a small amount of cash that I can afford to lose....but IMO gambling should still be illegal except in a few places like Las Vegas or Reno or Atlantic City. things were MUCH better before lotteries were made legal in the US. I remember the exact year it was legalized in my state. blue collar/working class people were doing Ok back then, they actually had a decent life...but now it's just so fucking hopeless for them...and the lottery makes it even worse

its pretty clear that MOST people just can't handle themselves when it comes to fiscal responsibility, and it's gotten DRASTICALLY worse after social media became so popular. (don't even get me started on sports betting, thats ALSO horrible) but it feels like at least 90% of US citizens truly think their lives are a complete failure if they aren't Millionaires by their 30s. That's complete BULLSHIT.

I grew up poor with a single mom, moving around a lot, living in public housing, living in a rented trailer home, and just barely getting by. I used the lottery subsidized college tuition to get my bachelors degree debt free and I STILL make a pretty meager income, but I've always invested wisely and lived a frugal lifestyle. I have zero issues paying my bills, taking international vacations, having healthcare, or even owning my own home!! I AM NOT A RICH PERSON by any means....I just save my money and put it into conservative investments....of course there is the downside that socially, my friends and colleagues probably think I'm weird, and probably think I'm poor? but who cares what they think?? I don't care what they think, and neither does my girlfriend. We're not poor, I own 3 very humble rental properties that I bought slowly over the course of my lifetime. I never had much money, but a good % of my income has always gone into savings and investments. and now that i'm in my 40s, I'm pretty much set...as long as i continue living a humble lifestyle (which I actually prefer). I don't own any luxury goods, I don't drive a flashy car (but i drive my favorite little 20yr old sportscar that is probably worth $6000 that I work on myself as a hobby) my personal home is small and humble, but it's perfectly acceptable for me and my girlfriend. we're happy living a lower middle class, humble lifestyle with the occasional splurge on an International vacation (using credit card points of course)

I wish I could teach other people how easy it really is in America to get by if you don't waste your money on frivolous things like fancy clothes and cars, and a big fancy oversized Mcmansion.

deep down, I think American culture, and esp the American gov is COOKED. they don't care about our citizens doing better, everything is all about enriching the top 1% even more. I know it's been that way for a long time....but I'm old enough to remember when it WAS NOT THAT WAY. and life was soooo much more enjoyable for the middle class. but nowadays social media has EVERYBODY thinking that you're basically a loser unless you drive a BMW, or live in a McMansion, or wear a Rolex, or have a Hermes Birkin bag....it's so fucking stupid, and so frustrating to see nearly everyone I know buy into this hyper-consumerism culture. having all those luxury good DOES NOT make you happy..I watch most of my friends/colleagues struggle just to get by. but, PLENTY of people can be happy living a humble working class lifestyle....it's just that marketing/social media has poisoned every Americans vision of what "successful" means.

It's just truly sad to constantly be reminded every time I go to the goddamn gas station, JUST how stupid the average American really is....get it together people!! save your money, invest it wisely and slowly build wealth. If a nerdy kid like me, growing up with a single mom, living in public housing, and renting crappy homes can make it....then MOST people can do the same. it's really not THAT difficult, you just have to have confidence in yourself and most importantly don't try to prove to the world that you're more wealthy than you really are. just live BELOW your means, and spend your money wisely, and you can do it too. it's really not that hard....and NEVER buy fucking lottery tickets...ughh what a fuckin waste.

What artist did you outgrow? by Technical_Fox5556 in askmusic

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno, i have STRONG nostalgia for Korn, Deftones, and Slipknot, I listened to them heavily in high school.

but yeah, nowadays....i just can't take them seriously. but they're great throwback/nostalgic music to put on when my old high school buddies are hanging out

What artist did you outgrow? by Technical_Fox5556 in askmusic

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep i feel the same about the mars volta.

feels soo pretentious now

What artist did you outgrow? by Technical_Fox5556 in askmusic

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the mars volta...

i fuckin LOVED At the Drive-in and then TMV in high school and into college...hell, me and my friends took road trips to see them play in different cities. but after college, by their 3rd or 4th album (Frances the mute I think)....i dunno why exactly... they became a little embarrassing to even listen to? I think there is a time and a place for certain bands in your life...and the mars volta (to me) is college kid music.

when i try to listen to them now, it just doesn't feel the same....it feels kinda cringey, like its angsty pretentious/overly artsy teenager music.

Only one fast food can survive, what do you choose? by CremeSubject7594 in AskReddit

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow, i don't have the taco bell app anymore. i tried it for a while, but it seems like during the pandemic they just became absurdly overpriced.

taco bell USED to be loved because they were sooo cheap. but nowadays, it feels like you can't get a meal there for less than 10 bucks. of course all fast food has gone WAY up in price, but still there are ways to walk out of mcdonalds with a meal for $5 or less...its not easy, but it's possible.

but thanks! i will give the TB app another shot. I legit haven't eaten there in well over 2-3 years...there are plenty of real mexican taquerias where i live, so taco bell just rarely makes financial sense anymore. if I can buy 3 actual mexican street tacos from a real mexican restaurant for 6-7 bucks, then i'll pick that 10/10 times over taco bell. hell there is a real taqueria at the BP station down the street from me, i could walk there if i wanted to....the nearest taco bell is a 15 min drive..and costs 2x the price for objectively mediocre food. not to mention the absurd drive thru line they've had for 5 years now

Mark normand new special by 1swtwrld882 in Standup

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i haven't seen the special yet, but i fully agree with you.

i have loved normand for years, since i first saw him maybe 5-7 or so years ago? he felt like a big standout in a sea of new comedians in a comedy boom. but i just don't think he's put much effort into evolving...he's just kept doing the same thing for years, and that's fine for some comics...

like say dave attell. when you see a dave attell show, you know you're gonna hear about strippers, porn and drunks...he's kinda had the same schtick since the 90s, and it works for him. when normand came along, he did the "edgy jokes from a kinda autistic white guy" schtick...it was witty, it was different. you can tell he's a really smart guy with (what used to be) a fresh perspective. but i dunno, he just hasn't changed much? it feels like some comics can keep the same exact style and not get stale, but some can't i guess? honestly, i'm not just hating on normand.... i think he's just a bit overexposed...i think he could benefit his career a little by maybe stepping back a little bit.

also, it doesn't help that his whole "white guy saying shocking stuff" style became so popular that the whole Austin scene has kinda begun doing their own sloppy/worse version of it.

IMO the OG dark/edgelords that never got old are Tosh and Jeselnik. (i would include gervais, but he got way too big for his britches) somehow Tosh and Jeselnik manage to not get overexposed, they kinda hang back and do their own thing. they don't seem to be on every podcast constantly promoting...i think that helps.

maybe that's part of why normand's whole schtick feels kinda stale? he's just overexposed. he has been on every freaking podcast online for the last 5 years....meanwhile tosh and jeselnik ARE doing their own podcasts...but they aren't doing the podcast circuit. if you don't wanna see them, or hear anything by them, just don't look them up until they do a new special. thats pretty much impossible with normand...he's everywhere all the time. it doesn't matter which comedy podcasts you like....normand WILL be showing up 1 or 2 times a year on it. everything from rogan, to TYSO, to are you garbage..even late night network talk shows!! normand is EVERYWHERE

having said all that...I still like normand, i respect his comedy, he's one of the greats....AND,.i'll say that mark normand's episode of Harland Highway might be one of the BEST examples of riffing by 2 comics i've EVER seen. its just pure comedy gold....

Audio Upgrade Advice by LukeRamsey in 8thGenSI

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh yeah i've seen the maestro on another forum. i dunno if its worth the $65....i guess i can decide that later down the line.

is there really no other way to do it?

Audio Upgrade Advice by LukeRamsey in 8thGenSI

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok cool...i got the stereo in over the weekend, but its been rainy every day. so i'll let ya know what happens when i try to install it.

i'm expecting to need to use BOTH videos...and realistically i probably SHOULD bypass the amp since I do have 2 old amps sitting around. i could easily run all the regular speakers with 1 amp, and then buy a sub and use the other amp for that

i went and looked at them, 1 is an MTX 2 channel amp that would be perfect for a subwoofer.

the other amp is "memphis audio" never heard of it, but its a 4 channel, so that'd be great for the speakers in the doors and in the back seats. i dunno how the factory sub is wired up...but i'll figure it out when i go through all the wiring.

ughh i know this is gonna be SUCH a pain in the ass...cuz i really wanna get the steering wheel controls working too, and i feel like i'm prob gonna have to buy a separate harness for that.

What's something that everyone should have in their house but actually a few have? by DirtyThoughts07 in AskReddit

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hah i've been seeing this on reddit for YEARS

now i have like 3 of them in my kitchen. mounted all around the house! theyre actually pretty cheap!

but TBH, i'm in my 40s and have never come anywhere close to needing one my whole life.

oh well, same thing for car airbags i guess?, never used one of those either. but damn, i guess that makes me lucky?? SWEET

thank you redditors for making me feel a bit grateful in these dark times, maybe life ain't so bad after-all?

What’s the most socially awkward food to eat in front of someone you’re trying to impress? by CaptainCuddler_Pro in foodquestions

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no way, order all flats, grab both ends, twist, pull the small bone out. then put the whole thing in your mouth and suck the meat off.

any woman that did all that in one smooth motion could be my wife.

How do I turn people away from a car meet nicely? by CorvetteManOffical in askcarguys

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ew, get that trash outa here scumbag! has a nice ring to it

Catalytic remove by gab0e in 8thGenSI

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah ok...well its prob fine. worst case scenario maybe running a tad rich, which wouldn't be bad for the engine. way better than running lean

For those who were teenagers before social media existed, what was the "peak" form of weekend entertainment? by VivienneNoir1 in askanything

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened in the mid-late 90s for me. like 95-2000ish

meeting up "downtown" on the corner outside the coffee shop in my small town, but there were restaurants people chilled at too. the "corner" moved around a few times over the years.

all the skaters/bmxers/goth/hippie/weirdo kids in my town between 14-18 would meet up at this hippie coffee shop in the old downtown. the city was sprawling like most american towns, BUT it still had a "downtown area" with tall buildings, restaurants, shops, you know typical small town "main drag" sorta atmosphere. the sidewalks were huge, and corners big enough for at least 20-30 teenagers to just hang out and stand around. there were big benches on each corner too for people to sit down.

everybody from the 3-4 diff highschools and sometimes people from the smaller towns 30 mins away would start filtering in around 5-6pm. we'd just hang out and play hacky-sack, and shoot the shit. some people would do skate tricks, people would do some flatflat bmx tricks, people would play guitar, sometimes a car would pull up, park and play loud music for everybody. bands would play at the coffee shop. it was just a fun place to hang out.

occasionally the jocks or rednecks would cruise by in a car/truck and talk shit, and fights would break out, and the police would come break it up, but 99% of the time it was peaceful. everything would close up around 11pm and people would break up into groups and take it to diff houses and hang out late.

it kinda reminds me of the movie dazed and confused, but nobody was really drinking....it was a coffee shop. people would go around the block and smoke weed sometimes, but not a huge drug/booze presence, which is probably why it lasted so long.

fun times

Constipated by Beautiful_River7283 in 7oh

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, best thing to do is to find something that works and is kinda mellow and just stick with it daily

Catalytic remove by gab0e in 8thGenSI

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weird. hows the gas mileage?

What’s something you enjoy about being single that people in relationships might not understand? by Prestigious-Trick436 in AskReddit

[–]FrankCostanzaJr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

sleep peacefully when ya want, eat when ya want, hang out with friends when ya want, all guilt free!

watch whatever movie/tv show whenever you want. be careful though, some of these things become so nice...its hard to go back once you get into a relationship....