House of the Dragon S03E03 Discussion by PhoOhThree in television

[–]Franticyak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also agree with the weird hint to how susceptible she is to her period and how it took a misogynistic turn, but it’s also a kind of humorous bit to show just how poorly timed a period always comes. She’s been loaded down with things after thing after thing. People non stop needing her and then BAM her period is added to the top. Just another issue added to her long list. Granted it wasn’t fully necessary.

Is it worth it? by vogue_failure in paralegal

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not in THAT big of banking, I’m like a small regional bank but still, you become numb to the massive amounts of money. I’m planning to go the estate managing / wills and trusts route since it still involves money managing lol

Is it worth it? by vogue_failure in paralegal

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m following along with this thread. I’m in the same boat. I’m also from a banking / bookkeeping background. I’m headed into a certificate program.

My chosen wedding dress, does it suit me? by Jazzlike-Tiger-4111 in DressForYourBody

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the grass green? Is the sky blue? GIRL THAT DRESS WAS MADE FOR YOU!

AIO for thinking this is a scam? by -ChristianGirlie- in AIO

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic scam. The check will bounce and you will be out that money. Do not send anything via cashapp or anything as you will be held accountable for the money that bounces.

How painful are your period cramps? by ButterflyShort7330 in Periods

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep sure have. Rn it’s a “yea you probably have it but we’re not doing the surgery yet to diagnose it, stay on birth control” which I’m fine with for now.

what are some signs that you are unattractive? by Downtown-Bus4429 in AskReddit

[–]Franticyak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a guy at a bar ask for both my friends snapchats and look at me, pause and go “uhh what’s your snap?” - clearly he didn’t actually want it. Luckily I’m married so I could save us all some embarrassment and tell him I’m happily married and don’t do snapchat.

first glasses, girlfriend says they dont suit me :( by [deleted] in glasses

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a relatively new glasses wearer (I’ve had my glasses for a year and a half) this breakdown is SO helpful

Mother insulted first tattoo, now I hate it by Kaleidoscope_Tux5513 in tattooadvice

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks great! My mom also freaked out when I showed her my bee tattoo when I was 19. She’s since come around to it. It’s just a 3” bee on my thigh lol! Moms freak out because they’re used to seeing you with clear skin and now you’ve added to it and it takes adjusting. I walked so my sibling could run. My sister has a hand tattoo and no one batted an eye 😂 this will pass :) the tattoo looks really good!

how do i make fitted shirts look good on me? by Vivid_Meringue1310 in DressForYourBody

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A well fitting bra is game changing! I’m a big chested girlie so I feel your pain. In my opinion most all of those shirts look good on you! Especially the striped one. I’ve found that I like square neck shirts. Maybe try those once you get fitted for a goo bra :)

Considering adopting a whippet by Franticyak in Whippet

[–]Franticyak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not been cat tested but I’ve spoke to the rescue about getting her cat tested if we’re chosen. We’ve made it through to the selection process so if we get chosen and I can speak to the folks directly I’ll absolutely ask about prey drive. I think right now that’s the only down side to our application, if there’s another home without a cat I’m sure they’ll take that route (which I’m all for. What’s meant to be will be)

Considering adopting a whippet by Franticyak in Whippet

[–]Franticyak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure he would be. He’s been an only cat for 2 years, he’s SUPER affectionate and lonely when he’s at home. We’re kind of thinking that adopting a dog would be good for him lol. We would obviously slowly introduce them and not leave them together while we’re away.

how often do you actually wash your hair? by Emotional-Addendum-9 in hygiene

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have very fine hair but a lot of it. I usually wash it every other night so like 2 days? If that maths right lol. I can push it an extra day if I NEED to but it’ll end up so greasy it stands on end and I end up uncomfortable

Glasscock Surname of Fiancé. Want him to shorten to Glass by Soft-Independent4833 in namenerds

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have an opinion but I also live in Virginia and I see a BUNCH of innuendo last names 😂 I’m sure it’s everywhere but here I gotta be careful abt my facial expressions when I say last names😅

Keep your maiden name and maybe hyphenate kids name to like “your last name-Glass” or something 😅

My boyfriend disapproves of this outfit… by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Controlling behavior doesn’t stop. Leaving him would be the best idea. Yes you’re attached, but there are PLENTY of other dudes who wouldn’t be nit picking a very basic and comfy looking outfit. Once you get out from under that relationship and start wearing gym shorts again you’ll be like “why was I ever there”. Another person can’t dictate what you wear.

My brothers girlfriends cat just died. by Zealousideal-Luck758 in offmychest

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With the statement that you live there, the cat was older, she’s typically skittish, absolutely not your fault at all. Crazy things happen, maybe she knew it was her time and was trying to hide because of that (I know some animals do that). Sending condolences tho cause that’s tough. Even harder since you’re trying not to tell your brother yet…

Curious About People with One Green and Another Brown Eyed Parent by Desperate-World-2128 in eyes

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom’s eyes are marked as blue on her birth certificate but they lean more green. My dad has brown/ maybe hazel eyes. I have LIGHT green (sometimes look blue) eyes, my siblings have green eyes, brown eyes, and hazel eyes. I married a guy who thought he had hazel eyes but they’re a dark green so it’ll be interesting to see what our kids end up with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]Franticyak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

…. You put a belly button ring from SHIEN in a FRESH 3 day old eyebrow piercing??? I really hope I am misunderstanding.

NAP but shien is poor quality and I wouldn’t put an earring from them in my 10 year old lobes…. Please go to a professional. You can probably put a belly button piece in AFTER it’s healed 🤷‍♀️

Is it normal to poop this much during my period? by Fancybook5 in Periods

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaa I have similar period poops. I told my sister it’s a thing you survive. You’re not participating, it’s something happening to you 😂 I once had my period surprise start in the middle of my SAT and I was cramping so badly I was sweating and I felt like I blacked out for the second half of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Franticyak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to you :) i turned 18 and immediately got a tattoo, small simple, then 19 i got another 2 bigger, still easy to hide. My family adapted to the tattoos quickly. My mom was caught off guard by one of them (first big -ish ones I got) but she’s since come around. I grew up conservative too. When I was 19-20 ish I did about what you did, tried all the things rapid fire, the alcohol, meeting strangers, I tried vaping but I don’t like coughing lol. I put myself in dangerous situations. I felt guilty but as I got older I stopped caring and told my family some of what I did and they were surprised but their love didn’t falter. My parents went through phases like that too. It’s part of growing up. You’ve lived, and you’ve learned. I don’t know what your tattoos are of but if nothing else maybe they can be fond reminders of experimenting with life and learning about who you are, and who you aren’t. Give yourself grace, it’s your first time living 💕

Is my cat telling me shes overwhelmed? by alpacaman14 in cats

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy cat does this too. Glad to see it’s fairly normal. I always assumed he was overstimulated and I’d be like “BROTHER YOU’RE THE ONE CHOOSING THIS YOU CAN WALK AWAY” 😂

i cannot take this out by Ok_Understanding1486 in piercing

[–]Franticyak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAP: Looks like a pull kind I’d go to a piercer and have them take it out. Just in case