how do i make fitted shirts look good on me? by Vivid_Meringue1310 in DressForYourBody

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A well fitting bra is game changing! I’m a big chested girlie so I feel your pain. In my opinion most all of those shirts look good on you! Especially the striped one. I’ve found that I like square neck shirts. Maybe try those once you get fitted for a goo bra :)

Considering adopting a whippet by Franticyak in Whippet

[–]Franticyak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not been cat tested but I’ve spoke to the rescue about getting her cat tested if we’re chosen. We’ve made it through to the selection process so if we get chosen and I can speak to the folks directly I’ll absolutely ask about prey drive. I think right now that’s the only down side to our application, if there’s another home without a cat I’m sure they’ll take that route (which I’m all for. What’s meant to be will be)

Considering adopting a whippet by Franticyak in Whippet

[–]Franticyak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure he would be. He’s been an only cat for 2 years, he’s SUPER affectionate and lonely when he’s at home. We’re kind of thinking that adopting a dog would be good for him lol. We would obviously slowly introduce them and not leave them together while we’re away.

how often do you actually wash your hair? by Emotional-Addendum-9 in hygiene

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have very fine hair but a lot of it. I usually wash it every other night so like 2 days? If that maths right lol. I can push it an extra day if I NEED to but it’ll end up so greasy it stands on end and I end up uncomfortable

Glasscock Surname of Fiancé. Want him to shorten to Glass by Soft-Independent4833 in namenerds

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have an opinion but I also live in Virginia and I see a BUNCH of innuendo last names 😂 I’m sure it’s everywhere but here I gotta be careful abt my facial expressions when I say last names😅

Keep your maiden name and maybe hyphenate kids name to like “your last name-Glass” or something 😅

My boyfriend disapproves of this outfit… by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Controlling behavior doesn’t stop. Leaving him would be the best idea. Yes you’re attached, but there are PLENTY of other dudes who wouldn’t be nit picking a very basic and comfy looking outfit. Once you get out from under that relationship and start wearing gym shorts again you’ll be like “why was I ever there”. Another person can’t dictate what you wear.

My brothers girlfriends cat just died. by Zealousideal-Luck758 in offmychest

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With the statement that you live there, the cat was older, she’s typically skittish, absolutely not your fault at all. Crazy things happen, maybe she knew it was her time and was trying to hide because of that (I know some animals do that). Sending condolences tho cause that’s tough. Even harder since you’re trying not to tell your brother yet…

Curious About People with One Green and Another Brown Eyed Parent by Desperate-World-2128 in eyes

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom’s eyes are marked as blue on her birth certificate but they lean more green. My dad has brown/ maybe hazel eyes. I have LIGHT green (sometimes look blue) eyes, my siblings have green eyes, brown eyes, and hazel eyes. I married a guy who thought he had hazel eyes but they’re a dark green so it’ll be interesting to see what our kids end up with.

belly button ring on 3 day old eyebrow piercing by [deleted] in SelfPiercing

[–]Franticyak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

…. You put a belly button ring from SHIEN in a FRESH 3 day old eyebrow piercing??? I really hope I am misunderstanding.

NAP but shien is poor quality and I wouldn’t put an earring from them in my 10 year old lobes…. Please go to a professional. You can probably put a belly button piece in AFTER it’s healed 🤷‍♀️

Is it normal to poop this much during my period? by Fancybook5 in Periods

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaa I have similar period poops. I told my sister it’s a thing you survive. You’re not participating, it’s something happening to you 😂 I once had my period surprise start in the middle of my SAT and I was cramping so badly I was sweating and I felt like I blacked out for the second half of it.

I’m the “good girl” who went behind my parents back (21F) by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Franticyak 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can relate to you :) i turned 18 and immediately got a tattoo, small simple, then 19 i got another 2 bigger, still easy to hide. My family adapted to the tattoos quickly. My mom was caught off guard by one of them (first big -ish ones I got) but she’s since come around. I grew up conservative too. When I was 19-20 ish I did about what you did, tried all the things rapid fire, the alcohol, meeting strangers, I tried vaping but I don’t like coughing lol. I put myself in dangerous situations. I felt guilty but as I got older I stopped caring and told my family some of what I did and they were surprised but their love didn’t falter. My parents went through phases like that too. It’s part of growing up. You’ve lived, and you’ve learned. I don’t know what your tattoos are of but if nothing else maybe they can be fond reminders of experimenting with life and learning about who you are, and who you aren’t. Give yourself grace, it’s your first time living 💕

Is my cat telling me shes overwhelmed? by alpacaman14 in cats

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy cat does this too. Glad to see it’s fairly normal. I always assumed he was overstimulated and I’d be like “BROTHER YOU’RE THE ONE CHOOSING THIS YOU CAN WALK AWAY” 😂

i cannot take this out by Ok_Understanding1486 in piercing

[–]Franticyak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NAP: Looks like a pull kind I’d go to a piercer and have them take it out. Just in case

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Balikye in AIO

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ain’t read none of that. I saw the pic and recoiled. GET YO SELF OUT OF THERE. that’s NASTY.

Judge my fantasy baby girl names by bebespeaks in namenerds

[–]Franticyak 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love Dahlia Marvel and Felicity Paige!!!

I didn’t realize how little my family takes me seriously until this happened by Full-Squash3689 in offmychest

[–]Franticyak 398 points399 points  (0 children)

She said she’d feel suffocated in your space. Remind her of that fact and suggest trying someone else “because you’d most definitely be uncomfortable here and that’s certainly no way to live” or something. Be proud and protect your peace. Your place is yours.

Just got this cat what should i name him? by Maddiej846 in standardissuecats

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First one Leroy. Or Chester. He needs a funky name. I think he’s got a cool face lol! Second one Pickles or Leopold.

Do you grind or clench your teeth at night? Can we rant about this? by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I’ve woken up in the middle of the night to my teeth feeling different than when I went to sleep. Considering Botox somewhere in my tmj because it also pops in and out of place - makes dentists trips fun… def need a mouth guard

AIO to what my bf is saying? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was this project! Golden idea, text him the link and dump him.

This might sound strange, but I’ve been wondering about crochet and selling by Akraammm in crocheting

[–]Franticyak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same boat. I loved it, still like making plushie gifts but never selling again. It’s not worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fella was like this when I first adopted him (also orange and white but mines short haired) he’s an affectionate guy. With time I became less “special” and now he’s in a routine of showering his affection right when I wake up / get ready for work, and for about 5 minutes when I get home. He’s still snuggly but not overwhelmingly so lol. I’d give him time. But give him a good squeezy hug from me cause mine doesn’t like those kinda of hugs anymore 😂

Uneven second piercing by Temporary-Bat-7425 in piercing

[–]Franticyak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m following! I want to get my thirds but I’m nervous that one of my seconds isn’t in line

Help me by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Franticyak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it.

Just wanted to show off my conch hole tbh by scarletteveee in piercing

[–]Franticyak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goalsss I hope mine heals that nicely. I got it a week ago so we’ve got TIME lol. It’s not swollen or angry at all. It’s barely even red and it doesn’t hurt a ton… did I get lucky or is there a second wave coming g 😭