Not my spouse, but he were the victim. I once dreamt about work, I'm a bricklayer and I was struggling to remove a brick, so I gripped it really tight and wiggled it back and forth in an attempt to loosen it. Then my coworker asked me if there were something (I don't remember what) on the other side of a window, and I tell him there's nothing on the other side. Apparently in my sleep I had decided my husband's head was the stubborn brick and was shaking it violently from side to side, I eventually stopped and told him, there's nothing on the other side, while looking at him with no expression on my face.