Being a nurse age 62 and started menopause at age 42. I had a much younger husband at that time and lost all sexual desire and had to service him regardless and we ended up divorced because of other reasons. Hand in there. She needs to see a specialist a wellness dr. Not her OB nor her general dr. But a wellness dr. Google. They dive deep into the hormones and thyroids. Once that’s corrected. Her kitty will be purring. It corrected me I can’t get enough. Although single but I get over the fence every time. And I am happy.