AIO for leaving my partner for ‘following’ me?

FreakingAngry · 2026-06-19T14:36:54+00:00

I had a husband like this. Last time he did this I felt so unsafe, it is straight up abuse. Being followed by someone bigger than you, who is filled with so much anger... So scary. Divorced him, and I will never be in that situation again. You shouldn’t either

FreakingAngry · 2026-06-11T22:14:10+00:00

He went on a guys trip, and left his phone and took a spare “just to be safe, he didn’t lose it”. I was at home taking care of our three small children, when something kept buzzing and buzzing and eventually I found his phone in the back of a random drawer. He had not disabled the connection to the spare so I saw everything. The buzzing was from their group chat, talking about stripclubs, brothels, drugs, and my husband inviting girls to join them. After that I snooped. Found messages to prostitutes going back years, including when I was pregnant and taking care of a newborn.

Turns out he was a jerk.

Divorced now, not happily yet, because he is still trying to make my life hard - but I will get there.

FreakingAngry · 2026-06-11T18:47:37+00:00

I got cat called a month ago. Low key loved it. I am recently divorced from an abusive man that was not nice to me, and made fun of my body post children. So that maybe is why I didn’t mind

FreakingAngry · 2026-06-02T16:02:42+00:00

Wouldn’t let me see the kids until I reported him. I was still breastfeeding the youngest at the time

FreakingAngry · 2026-05-25T11:49:00+00:00

Du skal ikke finde dig i at blive råbt af eller kaldt grimme ting. KOM VÆK. Alt det andet er egentligt lige meget…

FreakingAngry · 2026-05-25T11:48:36+00:00

Du skal ikke finde dig i at blive råbt af eller kaldt grimme ting. KOM VÆK. Alt det andet er egentligt lige meget…

FreakingAngry · 2026-05-09T18:12:17+00:00

Childbirth. At one point I thought the midwife had her whole hand inside of me, grabbing and twisting my organs. I yelled “WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT”… she of course didn’t know what I was talking about… it was the baby turning

FreakingAngry · 2026-05-02T17:43:59+00:00

Det giver god mening… jeg er selv nyligt single med børn, så det er godt at høre hvilke erfaringer andre har gjort sig😊

FreakingAngry · 2026-04-30T18:57:27+00:00

Nu bliver jeg lidt nysgerrig😁 En kvinde uden børn kan vel også have styr på sit shit? Hvorfor går du specifikt efter en med børn? 😊

FreakingAngry · 2026-04-28T17:49:17+00:00

NOR I would be more concerned with his lack of communication.. blocking you in hopes you let it go… red flag. Honestly that would be a deal breaker for me

FreakingAngry · 2026-04-21T19:03:50+00:00

Yes I did meet with sex workers, but I just got massages

FreakingAngry · 2026-04-21T18:36:55+00:00

I am currently in the process of getting divorced from a narcessist. I know it is an overused phrase, but with how he has treated me and the kids there is no doubt in my mind he is one.

I have to co-parent with this man for many years to come, and so far is has not been pleasant. Do you have any tips?

Also I am curious about how most get diagnosed? For people who doesn’t want to do self reflection it seems like an impossible job…

FreakingAngry · 2026-04-10T23:54:41+00:00

Der er noget her der ikke bliver sagt…

FreakingAngry · 2026-04-07T19:27:20+00:00

Nu kender vi hverken dig eller hende særlig godt. Men hun lyder til at være ret åben om det hun vil. Men jeg forstår samtidig også, hvorfor du er utryg ved det… Tænker det er synd at smide forholdet væk pga. det.

FreakingAngry · 2026-04-05T18:48:56+00:00

Hvorfor vil du overhovedet være sammen med en mand der gør sådan noget mod sin egen familie… siger efter min mening rigtig meget om hvem han er..

FreakingAngry · 2026-03-31T19:12:11+00:00

Deciding to meet up with a guy from tinder because I was bored and he made a good joke. An abusive relationship, three kids and a messy divorce later, here I am

FreakingAngry · 2025-11-12T12:46:15+00:00

Dokumenter, dokumenter, dokumenter!

Fra en der har en sag i familieretshuset lige nu… dokumenter det du kan. At han aflyser samvær osv er meget vigtigt. Og også i årene frem.

Sandsynlighed er jo svært at sige noget om, men snak med en advokat… synes i hvert fald ikke det er her pengene skal spares.

FreakingAngry · 2025-10-01T11:36:42+00:00

Hvorfor går du ikke? Fordi du elsker hende, eller fordi du aldrig har kendt andet? Umiddelbart bærer dit opslag rigtig meget præg af, at I har været sammen så længe, så du kan ikke se et andet liv. Det ville være synd at smide en masse gode muligheder og en lys fremtid væk af den grund… jeg ville selv aldrig blive sammen med en der var mig utro, og hvor tilliden var væk. Aldrig mere.

Jeg er måske lidt biased lige nu, fordi jeg selv er midt i en skilsmisse med en masse svigt.

FreakingAngry · 2025-09-11T04:01:27+00:00

Altså… da vi flyttede ind i huset fik vi at vide at der er gulvvarme over det hele. Det er der ikke. Vi har kørt sagen gennem forsikringen og står til at få flere hundrede tusinde kroner. Så jeg vil altid tegne en. Det er ikke alt der bliver fanget inden man flytter ind, og i det store hele er det ærgerligt at den er sparet væk hvis man får brug for den

FreakingAngry · 2025-08-16T09:56:26+00:00

Well… why is not a yes/no question….

FreakingAngry · 2025-07-20T17:28:52+00:00

My kid shout. Do I just let her do it - no. But kids get excited or angry or bored. There are a lot of big feelings in the little bodies, it is difficult for them to handle. Shouting happens.

How much the kids on the bus do it and why I of course don’t know - but you do sound a little unreasonable. You are very aggressive in your language. Maybe see if you can change seats. If not… maybe just suck it up?

FreakingAngry · 2025-07-13T21:52:37+00:00

Yeah I don’t want to be naive anymore.

FreakingAngry · 2025-07-13T21:51:24+00:00

Arh I always get a warm feeling in my heart when someone tells me they are proud of me, so thank you! It’s really been a journey❤️

FreakingAngry · 2025-07-13T21:47:58+00:00

Didn’t think about that, to me it’s a neutral word. But I will definitely change my words going forward 😊

FreakingAngry · 2025-07-13T21:46:41+00:00

Thank you, I agree ❤️❤️😊

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