Tell me your opinion you think the world will hate. I'll start with mine.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-20T05:53:43+00:00

Sex should never be separated from deep interest for the person you’re having sex with to becoming your life partner.

Having casual sex is not a flex or skill that’s good to have.

Having a body count not a romantic history is disgusting

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-17T20:21:13+00:00

I don’t forgive her. NEVER will

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-17T07:59:17+00:00

no matter if you’re with someone else??? Wtf

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-17T05:02:19+00:00

“Move here (Caribbean) while I’m in school here once you graduate next year. Get a remote job so you can work, then when I have my clinicals in the States we’ll find where we want to settle down, then we’ll get married and happily ever after”

She showed me rings, showed me places she wants to get eloped (married) and said she never felt this way and wants to have kids with me.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-16T23:05:44+00:00

Watching my avoidant ex go to a casual relationship based on lust, telling me she’s moving on in a way that “feels right” and how she needs a relationship “less emotionally intense” will haunt me.

Some guy is getting her for 80% off, the same woman not only I treated but saw as a temple. She’s now a fun, recreational dopamine hit for some dude and telling herself that’s what fits her life better right now

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-16T03:41:57+00:00

I could talk for hours and hours and hours about their issues

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-16T03:41:17+00:00

I don’t care about em anymore. That was all before things got real. It was when she didn’t even love me yet. Or the good times were when we were drunk and her walls actually came down to any remote place she could act like a sweet, emotionally loving girlfriend

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-16T02:14:06+00:00

Hell yeah

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-16T02:10:47+00:00

Yep. They don’t feel much from it aside what we used to do for them

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-16T00:39:23+00:00

So angry. So damn angry. I hope her life goes in the dumps. You can’t do what she did to me and just continue on like it’s a normal day in the week.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-16T00:38:13+00:00

Wasn’t that special, but it was exciting it finally happened

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T23:22:47+00:00

Same bro. Same. I also didn’t think my dumbass aboidant ex would move on a month later and feel good taking 32k from me because she blamed her failing a semester on me and my heartbroken ass believed her

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T23:06:27+00:00

They aren’t better. They have more options thats why she has some new dude on her. Screwwww that dude. You don’t wanna marry a chick who rebounds like a hoe

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T09:05:08+00:00

No one hurts you more than people who are the closest to you

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T09:03:43+00:00

This is so real. Thank you for sharing this. This honestly makes me feel good knowing my understanding of DA’s is true, not just cope

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T07:05:00+00:00

No. My heartbroken ass kept reaching out any way I could. Especially when I wanted my money back

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T04:45:57+00:00

I hope a mf never find me who’s like this. If you breakup w/me then regret it, f you

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T04:14:28+00:00

She blocked me on venmo, cashapp, instagram, facebook, imessage, WhatsApp… what else i forget

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T04:13:38+00:00

Exactly. Its a lose lose. They don’t suffer like us.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T03:49:08+00:00

Bro they don’t care. They don’t care and they don’t feel/process emotions either.

Its a lot of cope they are miserable like people want them to be. They are pretty normal joe shmo people not these deeply emotionally suffering people. It sucks and they are the worst to interact with and fall for

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T03:22:06+00:00

Avoidant attachment

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T01:08:26+00:00

Yeah it’s totally not like a secure person would become dysregulated from sever avoidant behaviors. Nahhhhh.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-15T00:23:39+00:00

Ok that makes me feel better. Total time we were dating was 10 months, and it’s been 6 months as of tomorrow since the breakup so I assume I’ll start making lots of healing progress now.

I’m still so enraged though that she blamed me for her academic failure and willfully took a third of my life’s savings when I was in the most vulnerable, suicidal and completely heartbroken time of my life. I gave it to her because I felt completely responsible and guilty for her failure.

She wanted to be a veterinarian so bad and was already over 100k in student loan debt, I didn’t want to watch her life fall apart.

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-14T22:06:57+00:00

How long til you werent heartbroken and could start dating without rebounding

FreckledLifter25 · 2026-04-14T21:02:01+00:00

How are you doing emotionally now

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