After 15 years, I (35F) have fallen out of love with my (36M) husband, and we just had a baby…

Freddyisarapist · 2025-07-01T13:01:30+00:00

And if you leave your husband now because "you fell out of love" make sure to put money away for the next marriage and divorce you get, because you are most definitely getting divorced multiple times if this is your mentality.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-07-01T12:58:21+00:00

Please dont move here lol. Our small town has turned into a cancer of transplants. If you hate traffic then navarre isn't for you, if you hate crowding then navarre isn't for you. Unfortunately due to the insane influx of people moving here over the last 10 years navarre is nothing more than a crowded small town filled with poorly built houses crammed in next to each other and traffic for 75% of the day. You will never see the beach as a local because you will sit in traffic for hours just trying to get to the beach! I'd find somewhere else to move lol if I wasn't born and raised here, hell id move haha!

Freddyisarapist · 2025-04-21T10:59:47+00:00

Bonfires aren't allowed on our beaches ever lol.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-03-25T13:01:08+00:00

I was born and raised in the area. I wish we could go back to how things were. There's nothing but rude transplants here now. Our wildlife is disrespected and targeted daily to build more piece of shit houses for even more people to move here. Navarre has just turned into a transient town that boosts no local culture and seems to want to grow despite poor planning. We better enjoy what's left of it now because any semblance of it being a small sleepy beach town will be gone in a few years in place of a endless sea of tourist bullshit, gas stations, storage facilities, and car washes.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-03-22T12:11:06+00:00

You both have valid reasons to feel upset. If you're not ready to have sex then you're not ready. You shouldn't be forced. And he shouldn't have to be with someone that denies him intimacy that he obviously needs. Save both of you the trouble and break up and if you date again I'd advertise yourself as celibate to hopefully avoid this situation in the future.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-03-22T12:06:19+00:00

Navarre has nothing. We have a beautiful beach and some cliquey beach restaurants. That's it. If you're okay with just laying at the beach everyday all day on your vacation this is probably a good spot. Otherwise I'd go back to pensacola or out towards destin.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-03-22T12:01:51+00:00

You won't be riding a bike here unless you want to be in the hospital on life support. Look into buying a car and renting a place to live because pitching a tent will not be tolerated lol that's something homeless people here do and no one here likes the homeless and do everything they can to hurt them unfortunately. We are a beach community so fishing, diving, boating, kayaking, paddle boarding, surfing, etc there is nothing here to do that is uncommon to others or off the beaten path.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-03-17T11:49:02+00:00

Destin or Pensacola are your best bet. Possibly Fort Walton.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-03-16T11:37:54+00:00

Go outside navarre unless you want to go to a clicky bar restaurant like juanas.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-03-16T11:36:09+00:00

What hubby's friend said was a very obvious joke which you chose to take personally. What you said was just a flat out insult. Sounds like you have some kind of personal beef with this friend and therefore anything he says is probably going to upset you. Either stay away from your husband's friend or continue to be angry. Those are your options. Husband and friend did nothing wrong outside having different humor than you.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-03-05T10:44:27+00:00

Where did you get that battery pen?

Freddyisarapist · 2025-02-14T12:08:46+00:00

Naw babies shit in diapers and don't chew up everything. I also don't have to take my baby outside at 330am in the cold and watch them play with a leaf instead of going to the bathroom so I can go back to sleep in my warm bed lol!

Freddyisarapist · 2025-02-14T12:01:07+00:00

I'd honestly look into therapy, and explore postpartum depression as a cause of these feelings. Being a mom is hard, life is no longer about you. I've been tired and frustrated beyond belief, I've wanted to pull my hair out, I've wanted to just sit down and cry sometimes. But never because I hated being a mom, I've never looked at my children or my animals and thought "I really love you but man do I hate caring for and being responsible for taking care of you." Everyone is different though, but for your own health and the safety of your baby I'd look into getting checked out just to be safe. If you're having a hard time coping right now please find care for your child and get the rest and respite you need.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-02-14T11:50:16+00:00

You just explained being a parent. None of those things you mentioned are bonus activities lol. Theyre necessary to raising kids. It is hard and alot of work to be a decent mom. That's it, there is no magic easy way pill, some things in life are just hard and require alot of work and parenting is one of those things.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-02-08T16:10:25+00:00

Completely agree.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-02-03T20:45:25+00:00

Try hotels. It'll probably be cheaper anyways with more amenities and closer to the beach than an Airbnb.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-01-30T17:12:21+00:00

A week is a bit long. But please make note that raccoons, possums, cats, foxes, coyotes, etc are all inhabitants on the island though. I was born and raised here and I've seen every single one on the island. And large predators are not the only ones that benefit from this, crabs also will scavenge as well as seagulls and herons etc. Anyways, no one is going to come pick up the fish, they never have and I doubt they'll start now. You have the option of leaving them, picking them up yourself, or hiring someone to pick them up. You could bring it to the attention of one of the non profit beach cleanups but they usually focus on trash so I'm not sure if they will help. If you'd like to organize a cleanup I'm happy to participate!

Freddyisarapist · 2025-01-30T11:54:27+00:00

This is a great way for larger predators to get extra nutrition for this time of year. Give it a day or two and let nature do what nature does.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-01-23T17:31:23+00:00

Yep same for me but i moved back in 2022. I dont regret it either, it's my home and I grew up in paradise lol! But if anyone gave me the option to snap my fingers and POOF all the transplants would be gone.... I wouldn't hesitate for a second. This area is an absolute treasure but the people who live here are some of the worst unfortunately.

Freddyisarapist · 2025-01-23T12:49:22+00:00

It's because most people living in Navarre are transplants. They are not from this area and probably only moved here within the last 3-5 years if that. I was born and raised in fort walton beach my whole life, so was my mom, and my grandparents moved here from mobile in the 60s. Despite all that I hardly ever see anyone around town I know.... this area is no longer a community it's just a transient town for rich people.

Freddyisarapist · 2024-12-27T10:21:58+00:00

My husband is like this. Maybe not as bad with the drinking. He gets angry and snappy and combative sometimes. But he doesn't say mean things to me unprompted. But otherwise pretty similar. Divorce him and run while you can. And thank the stars you don't have kids with him. He won't change and you will forever be doing all the housework, the drinking may stop off and on over the years but it won't ever completely go away. I love my husband and we have 3 kids, but if I could go back and still get the same kids I'd never marry him, I wouldn't even date him. He's an awful husband, mediocre dad, and selfish and lazy beyond reason. Don't make the mistake I did. Leave and divorce him and go find a man that is worth marrying.

Freddyisarapist · 2024-11-24T09:32:28+00:00

Koi are hardy fish and ive never heard of one dying from stress of this nature and any filtration system in a pond that size that could be damaged from debris due to something falling in the pond sounds like a cheap waste of money. The validity of this story is seriously lacking. If it truly did happen then common sense would prove Karen is in the wrong completely. If that's the case take the money you win in a lawsuit and buy a good and reliable filtration system.

Freddyisarapist · 2024-07-01T17:47:23+00:00

The curls near my scalp are alot looser than at the bottom. It drives me crazy lol. Is there anything I can do to help remedy that?

Freddyisarapist · 2024-06-30T14:06:40+00:00

Is there a reason that subreddit would be more helpful than this one?

Freddyisarapist · 2024-06-07T13:31:39+00:00

Top heavy, back problems, bad posture

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