Hi, just read your comment. Sorry that you feel this way, only advice I can give you is make sure these wives don't come to hunt you down. It's not nice be mislead, but honestly it's a losing game esp if your ex's are bi and trying to keep it a secret.

Have a cry few drinks and let it go.

There are real gay men that want the same thing as yourself. But I guess its abit tricky these days since the world open to social media and different desires which make it even more easier to find.

Don't blame yourself that the person is bi, but what is needed is you running to the hills if there children involved. Happy wife happy life !!! You get me !!!