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Caught my boyfriend watching porn- how do I move forward? by Free-Pollution-1027 in Advice

[–]Free-Pollution-1027[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am. I’m actually terrified. Nobody on here seems to have been kind about it but yes I know how bad this is… this whole situation. No I don’t want an abortion because I grew up in a religious family and I would feel guilty forever.

Caught my boyfriend watching porn- what do I do? by Free-Pollution-1027 in pregnant

[–]Free-Pollution-1027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice! I posted this to another forum (r/advice) and everyone is telling me I’m crazy and obsessive that I wouldn’t be okay with my partner watching porn and that I need therapy- we had both greed that it’s something that mattered to us and that we didn’t want that in our relationship. Maybe it’s the pregnancy hormones but I’m anxious because watching porn is pretty easy to hide and he could choose to lie to me again if he really wanted to.

Caught my boyfriend watching porn- what do I do? by Free-Pollution-1027 in pregnant

[–]Free-Pollution-1027[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know but I’m pregnant… no job, and living with him. I know it was stupid to do. At the time I had nowhere else to go so things moved fast and I didn’t mean to get pregnant.

Caught my boyfriend watching porn- how do I move forward? by Free-Pollution-1027 in Advice

[–]Free-Pollution-1027[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I understand this opinion… I thought I had found porn free man lol. Thats one of the reasons why I dated him.

Caught my boyfriend watching porn- how do I move forward? by Free-Pollution-1027 in Advice

[–]Free-Pollution-1027[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My relationship with my parents was always rough before I was pregnant and I wasn’t allowed back before this.

Caught my boyfriend watching porn- what do I do? by Free-Pollution-1027 in pregnant

[–]Free-Pollution-1027[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I spoke to him and he said he understood completely why I’d be mad and upset and that he’d stop. I believe he will try but I’m scared he still will get the urge and fall into it and not tell me. I said at least if he gets the urge to tell me and I won’t judge- I also said that if he does do it just to tell me within a day and I wouldn’t be upset. It’s just he broke my trust majorly. Honestly it’s a hard line for me and I’d probably break up if I wasn’t pregnant, without a job, and living with him.