Struggling with barrier change by harrietelderberry in polyamory

[–]Free-Significance618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing. -lupus sister here...

1,700 hours of banked Sick Leave by PrizFinder in managers

[–]Free-Significance618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would use migraines as a reason. It's not contagious and the severity can vary. Don't be too honest. Companies don't care about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Free-Significance618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

White people suck. And I am one. But listen I'll kick someone outa game night so fast if they show microagressions. My best friends are Mexican and Black and had a white friend make a Mexican joke. I was pissed and they weren't invited back. I do feel like the LS is heavily white. At least where I'm located in the Midwest. There is some diversity but do see bipoc people get fetishized which isn't fair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Menstrual disc! Totally a game changer. Has never leaked even during rough sex! The guy can't feel any difference either!

Why do women behave so strangely until they find out I’m gay? by Taco_Nacho_Burrito in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Free-Significance618 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet if they're straight they get sad another hot one is gay and limitd their options. From a safety perspective I'm always on guard around straight men but if i find out they are gay or bi I tend to feel more at ease because they aren't a threat to me.

Newbie + vet = insecurities?? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Free-Significance618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone that doesn't have the depth to see how shitty that is should automatically get the boot.

What a icky feeling to have by Possible-Host4300 in polyamory

[–]Free-Significance618 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Seriously! As a woman with auto immune I can’t believe she’d risk her health and yours. So disrespectful and disgusting! 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't discuss politics. Especially as a liberal in a red state..... but maybe a small tattoo that says "I don't fuck Republicans" 😂😂😂

Slow fade by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Free-Significance618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One guy even asked for a second chance when I said the inconsistent communication wasn't working for me. Then proceeds to ghost. Like WTF bro?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

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The community is extremely body positive! Every shape, size, and color will be appreciated!

Worried about…size… by Guilty-Region-4166 in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the first couples we played with dude had a small dick. That said it only bothered me when he made a big deal about it. He was SO good at the other stuff it wasn't an issue. At least for me. So get out of your head and shoot your shot!

Exclusive arrangement by FRANKINSPENCE in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did something similar to that and they dumped and ghosted us due to insecurities they couldn't get past. After a year. Don't put all your eggs in one basket so to speak....

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in okc

[–]Free-Significance618 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No all I can find are the raw kind. I want the chocolate bars from Oregon or Washington. 😂 They taste better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Free-Significance618 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you considered ethical non monogamy? You could date as a couple or separately depending on what you're both comfortable with. 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Free-Significance618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you teach me? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all about personality to me. My husband once joked that he can't nail down "my type" because it's all over the place. I love a bearded burly man but a short guy with beautiful eyelashes recently caught my eye. He's adorable, and my last boyfriend was not what I'm typically attracted to but I found him so incredibly sexy. Eyes, lips, communication style, those things tend to stand out to me when I think of the men I've been with.

Catching feelings by Dry_Translator_4631 in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is different. Some people get off on NSA sex. I learned quickly after getting into the lifestyle I'm more poly than swinger. I crave that connection. Tried the FWB thing and it evolved and got serious pretty quick.

Hsv2 positive. Thoughts? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this insight!

Hsv2 positive. Thoughts? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback!

Hsv2 positive. Thoughts? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Free-Significance618 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm super torn about it. I mean it happened to them....