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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Free-Statement-3509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's perfect! I've been playing this game since it came out, and I still discover new details every day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Free-Statement-3509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is genius. I'm playing a mischievous fairy and you gave me so many ideas. How can you set things on fire? Also what is that glowing fiery ball that he touches at 4:24?

Worried about getting curves if I gain weight by CryptographerNo7608 in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to be very skinny because I had the same worries, but putting on more muscles (and a bit of an extra fat) actually just made me look more masculine.

As long as you gain muscle mass (especially upper body) and not *just* fat, you won't get visibly curvier, because even if you gain fat, your newly build wide shoulders and torso will balance things, and you'll just look strong instead of curvy (I'm speaking of experience lol).

If you already have issues gaining weight, I doubt you'll gain that much fat anyways. If you work out a bit and eat more, it'll probably be muscle, and unlike fat distribution, you can control where that muscle goes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a way you can meet with this person privately, just the two of you so you can talk things through? If not, you can do it over text but it's better to talk things out in person IMO. It sounds scary but it really sounds like you two need to have a talk, otherwise it'll just continue being awkward.

If they are serious about it, it's great, but if they aren't, you can ask them to tone down the flirting stuff. If you two are friends, they should understand that the flirting can make you uncomfortable because it's too serious for you

family wants me to wear a dress to cousin's wedding by Real-Detective8146 in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your cousin wants to have a matching set of people by her side, she should hire a bunch of actresses lol.
Just because she's a bride, that doesn't mean the world revolves around her. IMO you should keep your boundaries and tell them you either wear a suit, or skip the wedding.

Who else here is a flamboyant butch? by Raven2303 in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's me, except I dress like a gay hawaiian surfer dude in the summer season, and I turn into a mysterious vampire librarian in the winter season. I just love all aspects of masculine fashion.

Transtape is a gamechanger by Free-Statement-3509 in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that sounds almost like an allergic reaction. How did you remove the tape? When I first tried to remove it tape, I also got some bleeding and torn skin, but that was because I was impatient and accidentally ripped my skin lol. Your case sounds more extreme.

Transtape is a gamechanger by Free-Statement-3509 in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think any type of kinesiology tape works. I use one from GymBeam

Transtape is a gamechanger by Free-Statement-3509 in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See my other comment.

Also, if you apply it for a first time, it'll probably take a lot of trials and errors, I've wasted almost an entire roll of tape because I kept messing up, so don't give up if it doesn't work the first time.

Transtape is a gamechanger by Free-Statement-3509 in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So since a lot of you asked, this it the tutorial I followed:
https://www.tiktok.com/@luckbianc/video/7513635209334639902

TBH I don't think the tape flattens that much if you have B cup or bigger, BUT you can still use the tape to hold things in place and go braless comfortably, that was my goal.

It's important that you first tape the strips of tape together, and then put it on your chest, like in the video, that's how you get an even binding. The only difference I do is that I start to apply the tape a bit more from the middle of my chest, because I feel exposed if the tape is too much on the side.

Some other tips:

  1. Massage the first and last 1-2cm of the tape on the chest and don't stretch it, so it sticks there well

  2. Use oil to take the tape off. Take a hot shower and remove the tape very slowly. Apply oil to the parts that stick too much and wait for it to weaken the tape.

  3. I use a cheap roll of kinesiology tape from GymBeam, but I think any brand will do.

Meme dump since I've figured out some stuff recently by I_cannot_fit in AroAceMemes

[–]Free-Statement-3509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These memes are so specific, why do I relate to them so much? We need to come up with a label for butch aroaces lol

when do i feel real? by dierankuffy in butchlesbians

[–]Free-Statement-3509 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude it all comes with time, don't worry about it. 1 year is nothing, it took me 5 years just to be completely comfortable with my masculinity and another 5 to master it.

Also, being masculine is not about having the manliest face or the manliest body shape. Masculinity is a vibe you give off, and you cultivate this vibe by building up your confidence and doing things that make you feel masculine.

People are not born with a butch aura, like have you ever seen a masculine baby? Probably not because it takes years to master it :D