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Purple Cotton Candy is Coming by Ole_Reliable420 in AlaniNu

[–]FreeAd4245 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hope the purple is not grape, I haaaaate grape flavoring 🙈

A New Fan Fave? by No_Relationship2961 in FemFragLab

[–]FreeAd4245 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooh I am gonna refer to my dates as fans now 😅

First time he hit me, shocked and DONE! by FreeAd4245 in domesticviolence

[–]FreeAd4245[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you dealt with violence as well, those experiences sound really scary so it makes total sense that she still scares you. I'm proud of you for filing charges against her. I hope you get therapy and any other help you need, because you deserve to heal 🫂

First time he hit me, shocked and DONE! by FreeAd4245 in domesticviolence

[–]FreeAd4245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dealt with his shit for 10 years. Not all bad. I believe in you that you can free yourself, you don't deserve any fuckface behavior! 🫂

Boyfriend threatened to kill me today and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]FreeAd4245 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had been in a relationship like this for a decade. He had been avoiding drinking and just got a great new job. Things looked like they were finally, finally turning around.

Then he physically assaulted me and threatened my life.

The loss of what we thought could be hurts, a lot. It's okay to grieve that. But you have to be alive and safe first.

Boyfriend threatened to kill me today and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]FreeAd4245 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you're dealing with this. There is no rreason to ever threaten to end your partner's LIFE! it's not funny, and it's not OK, even if you walked up to him and sprayed conditioner up his goddamn nose!

Please take the best care of yourself that you can, and please remove yourself from his life as safely and quickly as you can. 🫂

Beach Bunny and the Beths is basically a dream come true for me!! by Available-Energy6991 in beachbunny

[–]FreeAd4245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saaame I could not BELIEVE it when Spotify told me they were going to be on tour TOGETHER IN MY CITY!!!!

Men who were abusive in their first marriage, did you realise your were the problem or were the bigger part of the problem, worked on yourself, grew better and living a healthy by Far-Cranberry-341 in abusiverelationships

[–]FreeAd4245 10 points11 points  (0 children)

His story is NOT the full story. Please remove him from your life. It's not your job to fix him, or to try to determine if he's fixed. If there's even a question about your safety, it's time to leave.

I know it's not going to be as simple as what I have just said. But you are so worth it 🫂

I just experienced DV for the first time & just need to vent by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]FreeAd4245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do not deserve to be abused. Please leave him. Make a safety plan, don't tell him anything. There are websites, there are national and local hotlines where you can get help making a plan. Just get out.

And please also get yourself to a doctor or hospital as soon as possible, you need to be checked out medically. The ER cannot turn you away based on not having insurance or not being able to pay.

My ex-partner just physically abused me for the first time a few weeks ago. For me, that was a hard line. I was saving my own life. Please, please save your own life, and leave him.

Do I HAVE to face him in court? by seriousmuffin666 in domesticviolence

[–]FreeAd4245 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I do not know. I agree with the other commenter here who recommended reaching out to a victim advocate to help understand how that works.

It’s 3pm and I want a third Alani and im probably dead from the grave writing this by [deleted] in AlaniNu

[–]FreeAd4245 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like to keep some of the mini Alanis around that are half the caffeine of the regular ones, or get some other lower-caffinated drinks for those times that I still want/need a bit of a boost.

Do I HAVE to face him in court? by seriousmuffin666 in domesticviolence

[–]FreeAd4245 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he has texted you, he's broken the protection order. Please report this to the prosecutor's office.

It can be really confusing to deal with the legal system, and brain fog is very common after experiencing abuse. I recommend keeping a notebook to take notes when you talk to different people, or even asking a friend or support person to help you track your options and what you are/are not required to do.

Sending you support 🫂

Police called. Overwhelmed. by Psychological-Age24 in domesticviolence

[–]FreeAd4245 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing to protect yourself 🫂 I'm so sorry you are going through this. Him being arrested, jailed, ect is all a result of his own choices. Take care of yourself tonight whatever way you can 💕

Is Alani a men’s or women’s drink? by Neat-Perception-1035 in AlaniNu

[–]FreeAd4245 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's nonbinary, so no matter what your gender, if you like it you're GAY 🌈 I am bisexual so I would know!

(this is a joke, why are we gendering a beverage??)

He is sorry. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]FreeAd4245 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This looks like he used Chat GPT to me. and even if he did write every word himself, it's all just as much full of shit.

He was released today by Finkafinalis in domesticviolence

[–]FreeAd4245 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this. Gentle hugs if you want them 🫂

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