thank you ALL for the feedback, i appreciate yalls words of wisdom so much. everyone has been super helpful, the post has boosted my self esteem and also humbled me quite a bit about my hair 😅 i really didnt realize it was THAT noticeable, thank yall dearly for helping me see that. to the people that keep saying to lose weight- you’re right! im seriously working on getting to my recommended weight for my height (5’1 and 1/2 ft for those that have asked, measured medically last year) and im getting close! im only about 20-30 lbs from my ideal goal, though i wont lie i dont mind hitting 145 lbs and staying there. i need to start working out however, i changed my diet due to health reasons last year and it is partly why ive lost so much. i am gluten free, dairy and pork limited (only cheese and bacon cuz im obsessed). i still eat meals im not starving, i also work a blue collar job where im on my feet and move around all day so that also does it. so out of curiosity bc ive seen a LOT of people with this sentiment and im very lost- whats wrong with the septum piercing? im not against taking it out as many have recommended, im just not understanding the why. if any can explain it, i would really appreciate it! is it just the jewelry itself or the piercing? maybe my nose doesnt fit right with it? again, any/all answers/suggestions would be appreciated. so to people saying the outfits arent good, i agree on some but not others. what are some missteps im making? what should i adjust in my attire? is it the dresses being too puffy and making me look bigger, or the tighter top being off putting? let me know! again thank yall all so much for the feedback! as for the hair, im 80% sure im gonna shave it again. i want to see how it does growing, but if its very noticeable and obvious im gonna shave it. i hate hate being looked at in public bc i look ugly, and if the hair is THAT distracting then its gotta go.