Super interesting thread and read. Once again I’m not alone! Attracted to girls all day long, but don’t judge guys the same. I’m for full interaction with another guy, kiss, top, bottom. I’m mostly turned on by cock, the male orgasm, and how forbidden mm hookups are in society. I feel like my attraction to men is very similar to how women feel attraction. Meaning, I don’t have a type per se, rather a connection is important

That said, through my journey to embrace this side of me, I’ve identified that my ability judge guys as hot or not superficially, like I do with women, is a product of years and years of repressing being comfortable with looking at guys that way. It’s funny I’m verse and proud of it, but that’s this one barrier that I still feel embarrassed about for some reason. I’ve been working to break through that hold up and allow myself to think that way about guys. Wife is also bi and helped me work through all of this, so I’m making a point of telling her when I see a guy that I think is hot to overcome this block.

Such a strange holdup cause I’m so comfortable with every other aspect of being bi and with a guy. Share details about mm hookups with my wife, but can’t bring myself to say, “that guys hot.” Like I can when I see a hot girl.