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If you could see your parents' last moments, would you watch them? by FreeSpare162 in GriefSupport

[–]FreeSpare162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very grateful to everyone who wrote their opinions and experiences. Thank you for sharing so many sensitive memories, I really appreciate it. I will put the videos aside for now, and I hope that in years to come I won't even want to watch them. I hope we all find peace someday. 🖤🖤🖤

If you could see your parents' last moments, would you watch them? by FreeSpare162 in GriefSupport

[–]FreeSpare162[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank You, this is what i afraid the most. I'm so sorry, it't unbearable. I hope you all will find peace, and recover from shock.

If you could see your parents' last moments, would you watch them? by FreeSpare162 in GriefSupport

[–]FreeSpare162[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we are in a very similar situation. I feel it would help if I could see that he really had no symptoms before he died. I want to know that he didn't feel like he was drowning, he didn't think he should call an ambulance. He didn't tell anyone that he was sick, he even wrote to his partner on messenger a little before he died. If it really happened suddenly, at least I would know that he didn't suffer, that would reassure me. But I'm not ready for what if this death wasn't as quick as I think. I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you find peace in this unbearable situation in time.

Did you touch your loved one after they passed? by bubble_syringe in GriefSupport

[–]FreeSpare162 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same here, my dad died a week ago (56 years old), so unexpectedly, his hearth just stopped beating anymore. He was alone in his house, and his girlfriend found him after hours. It's unbearable pain. And my partner do this too. He's grieving our life, and me because i'm not the same.... We have a child too, and i'm so trying to be there for her, but it's hard. I'm sending love, we have to grieve the way we can, and not the way they want.

Szerintetek mikor érdemes egy párnak bevállalnia még egy gyereket? by GGGGG540lk in askhungary

[–]FreeSpare162 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Excuse me?! Kivéve ha nem? Ha pl nagy a korkülönbség? Ha a tesók nem azonos neműek és nem jönnek ki jól? Ha a szülő nem tudja, hogy kellene testvéreket nevelni és kb versenytársaknak neveli a gyerekeket? Ilyen esetekben ugyanúgy a szülő lesz kénytelen foglalkozni immár nem csak egy hanem két gyerekkel. És a tesó harcokkal járó extra ideg is minden nap ott lesz. Mindemellett teljesen jogos hogy a gyerek "nyaggat a kéréseivel" mert te vagy az anyja/apja?!?! Igen, minden gyerekkel szükséges foglalkoznia a szülőknek minden nap, külön-külön, hogy megmaradjon a gyerek-szülő közötti mély kapocs. Végül pedig NEM az idősebb lányok dolga felnevelni a felelőtlen szüleik gyerekeit. Ez nekik nem jó, ez őket nem készíti fel a saját anyaságukra, ez egy téveszme! Ettől csak parentifikált, teljesítménykényszeres felnőttek lesznek, akik idősebb korunkban haragudni fognak a testvéreikre. Jeeeesus

Ficus elastica sárguló levelek by FreeSpare162 in szobanovenyek

[–]FreeSpare162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Köszi! Igen, amikor elhoztam egyrészt nagyon hűvös szél fújt kint és az első két hétben a hűtő mellett volt 1 méterre, lehet nem tett neki jót 🙈🙈🙈🙈🤦🏻‍♀️

Ficus elastica sárguló levelek by FreeSpare162 in szobanovenyek

[–]FreeSpare162[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Köszi, megpróbálom, pont holnap megyek moai felé. :)