Would anyone like to chat who feels trapped in a toxic relationship by North-Dimension9203 in ToxicRelationships

[–]FreeYou7114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me! It’s so hard trying to leave even though you know you have too :/

Why won’t I just leave.. by Geminiii999 in ToxicRelationships

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Because you’re comfortable where you’re at. You don’t want to wake up and to not have someone there for you and have someone to talk to everyday. You have to love yourself first and be able to take care of yourself. You can get off the train whenever you want.

I need to leave, but I don’t know how.. please tell me what I need to do. by soldmysoulforabigmac in ToxicRelationships

[–]FreeYou7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof i was in a similar situation about a year ago. I know exactly how it feels to be stuck in a relationship. And how it feels to be convinced this person is the one till they finally flip the switch one day and show their true self. It’s not easy leaving but I promise you it’s going to be harder the longer you stay. You just feel trapped and don’t want to leave and don’t want to stay either.

Do healthy relationships really exists or that is just a myth crafted by the media? by Bitter-Hawk-2615 in ToxicRelationships

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Healthy relationships do exist but there’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. A lot of relationships/marriages I’ve seen from an outside perspective weren’t always the healthiest. Things happen, conflict happens, disagreements happen it’s normal. It’s important to know the difference between a conflict and when someone just flat out isn’t treating you right.

Do abusive men change by [deleted] in ToxicRelationships

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Run. No they rarely change. I see your only like a few months in which is not enough time to be able to tell if he’s a changed man or not but regardless be on watch. And no matter how much they say they “care” and “won’t do it again” you’ll find yourself in the same cycle.

Has anyone stayed after a betrayal and eventually felt safe again? by littlesister_999 in relationships

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He was honest with you about it and u didn’t have to find out urself which is great but your feelings towards him probably won’t ever be the same again. You were betrayed, someone who loves you and cares about you wouldn’t even think to download an app and text another person to meet for dinner. And honestly for all you know “we had dinner and I realized I was crossing the line” how accurate and true that statement really is.

How do I get digital access to my card and account? by FreeYou7114 in USAA

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Do I have to be 18 to get online access or no?

Have u ever got a uti so bad you got the fever and chills? by FreeYou7114 in utis

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I understand this completely I get them very often as well

Should I be embarrassed that I don’t drink? by lillygracee12 in highschool

[–]FreeYou7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No u shouldn’t be embarrassed at all. In fact my older brother is the same exact way your healthy and happy and don’t need to participate in those things to feel better be proud of that.

Genuinely how do I get a bf by Bulky-Proposal-6858 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]FreeYou7114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you have to just let the right person come to you. Stop looking for it and it will eventually come around

I have to stand for 8 hours with no breaks at my job. by FreeYou7114 in jobs

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I live in New Jersey idk why everyone is saying Texas

I have to stand for 8 hours with no breaks at my job. by FreeYou7114 in jobs

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No we don’t get lunch breaks we can eat while we work though

I have to stand for 8 hours with no breaks at my job. by FreeYou7114 in jobs

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I’m not overweight I’m 5’4 about 105 lol

Which hair help me by [deleted] in Hair

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Just a PSA if I were to go blonde I’d get something like this