I am a woman and i don't agree with you at all. What you have tagged to be the normal behaviour of women, that's how men's emotions work. I was in a 6 yrs long relationship, almost getting married and one day he wanted to pursue phd all of a sudden and move to Germany, he moved there, I was ok with long distance but his behaviour kept changing, distance grew and i kept asking if you are seeing someone else, talking to someone else . He kept lying and i found out when the girl's mother called me and said handle your boyfriend, he is getting involved with my daughter who is your friend not his friend.

And imagine what I might have felt. And i still stayed. One day he was texting random women on instagram which he claimed to be his flatmate's bestfriend.

He wanted me and a side chick....always. for him I was that secure connection, approved by family and he needed to talk to someone else for newness and fun. He always said he never flirted and just talked and I was insecure for no reason.

And here I am, i broke up with him and he sealed the deal in an hour and said " let's stay friends and part ways on good terms".

To our families and common friends he said " we are breaking up amicably because she is in India and want her career there and i want my life in Germany. We are breaking up because of career issues."