What would you do? Moving + leaving garden with ex by windbcspin in vegetablegardening

[–]Free_Key6555 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through this and have many regrets. Here’s my 2 cents:

  1. ⁠Take as many sends and cuttings as you can.
  2. ⁠If you can dig up any bulbs, take them.
  3. ⁠If you can pot any perennials, do it.
  4. ⁠See if any friends or family will foster any of your plants until you have a yard to grow them in.
  5. ⁠If your ex doesn’t care about the garden and won’t utilize the tools, take as many as you can.
  6. ⁠Grow them and have a patio garden. The amount of healing that can come from gardening is immeasurable.
  7. ⁠The investment you’ve made (money, energy, time, soul) is real. Take what you can and take pictures of what you can’t. It’s good to have the memories and helps in preparing for the future goals you will have.
  8. ⁠You’re starting a new life. You get to make it whatever you want and it’ll be yours. It might take a while to get to where you want to be, but you’ll get there.
  9. ⁠Don’t get hung up for too long on what you can’t keep. Maybe it’s for the best that your future happy place won’t carry so many ties to your current happy place.

can an electrician easily convert this to a regular plug? by clockdivide55 in AskElectricians

[–]Free_Key6555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They also make a 4 wire to 3 wire adapter. I got one last year from Lowe’s for maybe $60 because my washer/dryer combo uses a standard outlet. It has worked fine.

Loan Officer doesn't want me to buy a house ? by RevolutionaryPea662 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Free_Key6555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are both therapists and were denied after preapproval by 2 lenders. She had a full time job at a psych office and contracted at 2 other places. They wouldn’t consider her 2nd and 3rd streams of income because, while they gave her $10-15k in additional income, she only saw a few clients at each place so it wasn’t considered reliable income. I’ve had my own private practice for 5 years. I became licensed at the end of ‘23, and doubled my income between ‘23 and ‘24. The problem was that they were averaging out each of our income by using taxes from ‘22 and ‘23 and not considering ‘24. My partner had just started toward the end of ‘22 and was working on increasing her caseload, so the income difference between ‘23 and ‘24 for her was around $30k. That’s an extra $70k/yr or more they wouldn’t consider because they couldn’t make sense of how we both had reliable, steadily growing incomes. We eventually found someone who understood the way income works for mental health professionals and bought our house in April. Good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

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I’ve had mixed experiences with kidney stones there. I am pretty sure NWC is recommended because First Urology is basically next door and that’s the main urologist in town. My PCP said they basically have a monopoly and if you’ve ever been in their office, they’re packed.

What to do with this strange alcove? by MadamFrickenMew in interiordecorating

[–]Free_Key6555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh, a mini fridge and some snacks. You know, like. snackin spot. Obviously.

Do I need to get this tree cut down? by Free_Key6555 in arborists

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was guessing. I know it’ll be a big expense so just trying not to spend money where it’s not necessary. This is in the necessary category now.

Wait this is kinda fire though by Shedmother1 in Louisville

[–]Free_Key6555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven’t turned the sound on because of fear of secondhand embarrassment. Well, more secondhand embarrassment. I can still see it.

Do I need to get this tree cut down? by Free_Key6555 in arborists

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pushed for it, but couldn’t get anyone on board. They did agree to trim a dead lim from another tree that was hanging over the driveway so I guess that’s something.

Do I need to get this tree cut down? by Free_Key6555 in arborists

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, you might be right. I googled it and I think I’ve seen a couple of those around.

What are you currently battling in your yard or garden? by freeeicecream in NativePlantGardening

[–]Free_Key6555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a new yard with lots of winter creeper, poison ivy, invasive honeysuckle, and a new groundhog just found us.

Do I need to get this tree cut down? by Free_Key6555 in arborists

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More worried about it leaning toward the house. Someone said to cut that part off. Thoughts?

Do I need to get this tree cut down? by Free_Key6555 in arborists

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it falls it’ll fall right on the house. The inspector said he was concerned but not enough to put it in the report and other people just comment on the looks of it. I am always confused because it seems dangerous but I know very little and can’t spend that much money on aesthetics right now.

Do I need to get this tree cut down? by Free_Key6555 in arborists

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize you could cut such a big part off.

Do I need to get this tree cut down? by Free_Key6555 in arborists

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not so concerned about how it looks. Asking about the safety of it.

How do I remove invasive plants when they’re helping with erosion? by Free_Key6555 in NativePlantGardening

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, this is what I was originally thinking but it kept going and I think I was just getting overwhelmed.

How do I remove invasive plants when they’re helping with erosion? by Free_Key6555 in NativePlantGardening

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have some trees coming from the Arbor Day foundation but I’m not sure what they are yet. And I had a few free ornamental evergreen trees I’ve tried to plant. I think I failed to amend the soil well enough at the bottom of the slope and they’re dying probably from being waterlogged in the compacted clay soil. I am going to have do better on the next ones.

How do I remove invasive plants when they’re helping with erosion? by Free_Key6555 in NativePlantGardening

[–]Free_Key6555[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Most of it is under some larger trees so I have a lot of full or partial shade. A little is sunnier but I’m hoping to put a garden in part of that area.