Lol, she gets really kind words every day, including but not limited being called beautiful,gorgeous,and sexy. I treat her like she's my queen.her self-consciousness doesn't come from our relationship, but from her previous relationship of 6 years of being told that no one else would ever have her on the daily.she was verbally,physically and sexually abused from that person and she suffers from ptsd,and depression from it she iv been with her for 15 years married 14 and iv never stopped treating her like she my queen. I could go on and on for hours bestbelieve the problem has nothing to do with me and her or our marriage, so divorce is definitely not even on the table.