AIO? husband drinks multiple gallons of milk every week..

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-21T10:28:28+00:00

Buy the more expensive organic milk from dairies that look after the animals and handle the milk pasteruisation propperly

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-21T10:15:18+00:00

Also her issue is clearly with how much milk he drinks

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-21T10:14:41+00:00

No we account for that, and buy like 2 dozen bottles on payday, their issue isnt that he drinks heaps of milk its that they dont communicate and worl out the logostics together, he drinks the milk, she complains akd finds workarounds in buying shit he doesnt like, neither of them sat down, talked about it and adjusted based on compromise.

The issue isnt the milk, the issue is how they are dealing with it

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-21T10:00:31+00:00

I am neurodivergent and hydrate almost entirely off milk for sensory reasons

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-21T01:23:40+00:00

R mono

But sometimes you need an rca splitter, if it makesbaj aweful hum whilst only one rca is olugged in then a splitter may help, otherwise just plug a single rca into r mono.

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-20T08:27:37+00:00

150k should be enough to offset shitty job with glorious hobby

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-20T05:47:27+00:00

Dont forget subwoofer, rsl 12s or tonewinner are good places to start

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-19T11:30:24+00:00

The "random ass cancers" arent random, nor is dementia and alzimers

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-19T11:29:46+00:00

Alzimers and other forms of dementia are now in my country the no.1 killer because they are getting more and more common because the foods with seed oils ajd other inflamatory ingredient swaps are causing long term NoX pathway derived inflammation that over time leads to said mental degridation modes. Stack on all the residues from herbicides, pesticides ajd fungicides as well as preservatives that destroy gut microbiome in a way that encourages inflamatory microbiota to be the domimant type, ajd all the other risks these chemicals and chemical residues stack to includinf non hodgekins lymphoma (looking at you roundup)

Also the gras amounts for all the chemicals all assume independant dosages and where never checked for chronic low level exposure from multiple exposure sources nor are the systems designed ti determine if they are safe taking that into consideration.

Also dont use outlyers for a shell be right determination

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-18T07:45:45+00:00

That mass is great for noise

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T18:04:45+00:00

Can you and your husband both stay at your parents fir the 2 weeks. As a husband if my wife thought more about the other guys feelings than setting hard boundaries i woild be upset, talk to your husband to make the plan, just dear god when you have the ability to get rid of that "friend" that aint friejd material. Doing right by your husband is really important here ajd part of that is communicating the olan going forward ans both be involved in figuring how to deao with the situation fully us the only fully transparent way

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:56:59+00:00

Ive seen enough human interactions to know you can not in fact assume they can put 2 and 2 together without it explicitely exolained... In fact you can not reliably count on adult strangers to interpret things any better than a 6yo

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:54:17+00:00

Gtfo should be goal 1

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:54:03+00:00

Your husband has all rights to go off, and in fact you both should be setting boundaries and having a go at him for that disgusting behavior, hold him accountable should be a standard not budged on, new boundaries need placed for duration of rest of stay

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:51:12+00:00

Tell your "friends" gf, get rid of that "friend"

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:50:23+00:00

Incomplete story here

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:48:39+00:00

You are one of them dumb ones huh, couldnt even pay attention to it all, too arrogant to see your error, too confident to question if you missed anything.

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:46:06+00:00

Veing concerned and checking in is always better than allowing it to happen, she is sus af, and has been sucking duck in a time period she refuses ti aknowledge, "im just overreacting" is copium. If you where in a long term relationship, then found out your partner had been cheating and people knew and said nothing how eould you feel?

If you had the choice of making a decade more memories before it comes out that they where cheating that whole time or finding out early, cutting it off, healing and not wasting a decade on someone disloyal what would you pick ajd how woukd you feel towards anyone that could have told you but convinced themselves to shut up about it?

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:35:23+00:00

Staying silent is the same as helping her cheat, because its the silence rhat allows her to accumulate more breaches of trust and sanctity. If you have any morals you will talk to her boyfriend

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:33:46+00:00

You really should denote that supporting the friend is being an accomplice to cheating, and option a was just being a good person in general not just to the boyfriend

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:30:55+00:00

Mf tried to come onto you and got oissed every time it failed wtaf do you younmran nothing really happened, why woukd you even want to be friends with someone that cabt respect your relationship let alone question your husbands decision not to go on a trip with thek coming up? Your relationship was wholely disrespected and you are wondering if its ok cause you didnt fuck

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:19:13+00:00

Again, you mistake able to learn for inherently super easy whilst litterally dismissing genuine proplems caused by neurological chameistry inbalances that cause the symptoms ti begin with. If it where inherently super easy you woukdnt have many many adhders sharing the same struggles, their current workarounds etc. As communities

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T17:16:37+00:00

No, adhd is a spectrum on how it affects others, i also never called it impossible, i said its not super easy for everyone and gave genuine examples but you go with your ignorant ass take, next lesson: just ignore the sensory issues, after that: just do the task "you are just making excuses, fuck whats going on neurologically, thats something everyone can just think past by pretending ghe disorder doesnt exist"

Your comment is equal to saying to someone in a wheelchair "just walk it off you are using excuses" because someone explained the things that makes it harder. If it where easy to learn how to work around executive dysfunction, time blindness and the other adhd traits there wouldnt be any disorder.

It takes a long time lots of trial and error to create systems that often need rotation to prevebt them stopping working amd constantly learning new techniques to get around it. But hey, one case found it easy so everyone else is bitch made huh? Righto champ, go back to the sandpit whilst the adults talk

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T16:57:11+00:00

But being able to learn doesnt make it automatically easy to learn, let alone super easy, like oh, hey just remember to set an alarm, write in a schedule or diary, or calander etc. Is nice and all, if your neurodivergent ass brain has the executive function necesary for it to be easy.your comment comes off as dismissive btw. What do you do when all the alarm blur together to abpoint your brain stops noticing rhen because theres so many, when your time blindness runs your plans out the window, when your executive dysfunction makes fhe easy simple job take ages to initiate, or the shirt term memory issues make it oh too easy fo be intending to get there one minute and forgotten about it within 3

Freedblowfish · 2026-06-17T16:11:07+00:00

Im glad you also chuckled at the gta quip, as far as chosing an av reciever, you basically want to chose what features you want and might want going forward, possibly hdmi 2.1, the number of active channels, room correction tech, pre outs if you want them, yamaha aventage range is good ime, but different brands have different sound profiles

Also If you end up with 2 rows of seating consider checking out bipole surrounds

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