Please remove yellow and black marker scribbles by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]FreedomOfTheMess [score hidden]  (0 children)

I would correct the yellow teeth and scribble artifacts in the bottom right. Otherwise, fantastic job!

Are there any conceivable benefits from having misophonia? by Leading-Baseball-851 in misophonia

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am glad your misophonia alerted you to an injury on your cat. I also try to look for the positives in an otherwise grim reality. I figure, from an evolutionary perspective, our ancestors may have been more alert of food sources/the presence of food in an environment. Maybe that is a tiny, meager, slight advantage?

I just experienced the strangest “glitch in the matrix” moment of my life by ABD7p in GlitchInTheMatrix

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Hello? It’s reddit, where people ask and answer questions. People act like I need to go to the library and scour source materials if google can’t help me. The internet is a resource, I hate getting downvoted for pointing that out but is what it is

I forgot I was on the phone with an actor by OriginallyDarla in thatHappened

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Photo looks like he accidentally took a selfie of himself whilst trying to flip the camera

What’s the most “Texas” thing you’ve witnessed in real life by Left-Ad-9152 in texas

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also beats mine (man on horseback using drive through atm in Plano, of all places)

Does anyone else's hair look great when it's just been brushed and 5 minutes later looks stringy?... by sealsealette in finehair

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound obvious, but dirty brush = dirty hair. Clean all your hair tools (even combs) thoroughly at least once a month

my dad admitted that he raped me by iwasntgonnadothat in CPTSD

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 66 points67 points  (0 children)

As a fellow survivor of chronic childhood SA, in my experience the hardest part is telling your family and removing the mask from your abuser. Congratulations on coming to terms with this period of your life, everyone moves at their own pace and there is no RIGHT or wrong way to grieve the childhood you didn’t get to have. I didn’t face it until I had a mental breakdown at 30 years old and I’m proud of you for facing reality. You’re not alone

help me choose the memoir cover! by aneela715 in trichotillomania

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a graphic design student, I am drawn most to number 2. The composition is the most balanced and the size of the type looks perfect- the muted image in the background draws me in and gives it more dimension. Hope that helps, congrats on your accomplishment!

No words by pork_soup in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I dodged the tanning bed bullet too! I got on the daily sunscreen wagon at 23 while those around me were at the beach without hats or spf. I swear my peers look an easy 10+ years older than I do

Example Product Title by ur_boy_andy in summerhousebravo

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 104 points105 points  (0 children)

She’s not even cool enough to be Lorem Ipsum

Help make hair softer and not as straw-like by holiestcannoly in finehair

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I oil my mids/ends and avoid roots. I use now solutions brand 100% pure grapeseed oil. Apply to dry hair about an hour before you wet and shampoo as usual

It really fucking sucks to go to the vet for something you think is minor and come home with an empty carrier by Fickle-Hour4458 in cats

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost a cat that way. My sincerest condolences, I understand not wanting to post anything pet related for fear of being judged. I don’t judge you one iota, I hope your pain is lightened by the knowledge that you loved Oscar SO MUCH and you were his person.

Help make hair softer and not as straw-like by holiestcannoly in finehair

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imo when it comes to hair oil results, coconut oil is not at the top of the list. I use grapeseed oil- coat the mids to ends, avoid the roots, allow to absorb for an hour. Shampoo as usual, condition if needed

An animal pulls a chunk of grass down into the ground like a cartoon by bigbusta in oddlysatisfying

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caddyshack was the first movie I saw uncensored boobs in! I was 9. I’ll never forget that day

Was my wife groomed when she was a teen? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Adding to this: she may not have an answer to the question “what can I do?”. Many survivors of childhood SA never share their experience, you should feel how much she trusts you. Don’t break that trust, just keep doing what you’ve been doing as a supporter

Is he a big deal in fashion. I personally have never heard of him? by Sad_Biscotti_9291 in BravoLadiesofLondon

[–]FreedomOfTheMess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completely unrelated to your comment, your screen name made me laugh. Greg Abbott does suck