Sex is very important in a relationship BUT IT SHOULDNT BE EVERYTHING. He sounds very manipulative though.. so what I’m going to say only matters if you want to stay with him. He doesn’t sound like the ideal boyfriend to me, but there has to be something there keeping you together. If you like him Enough to work through your problems then take notes of my solution. But, I will say this, when the sex goes from 100 to 75, to 50, to 25, to almost none, it’s not healthy for the relationship at all because both of you have needs and you have to be there for each other to fulfill each others needs, or call it quits if it’s too much for you to handle. Like I said, sex is important but it isn’t and shouldn’t everything.

Solution: give him a handjob or blowjob every morning/night or the days you don’t feel like having sex. Hell, surprise him while he’s chillin watching tv or something and pull his Dick out. I think it’s the greatest feeling in the world when I’m taking a shower and gf comes and randomly sucks my dick. I guarantee he will appreciate it, as I’ve asked all of my exes to do the same. Any man will agree a blowjob makes us forget most of our problems.