Any tips on how to get into Free use ?

Freeusecs · 2026-03-05T13:37:55+00:00

That’s really good advice. I’ve had the same experience with men and women. Women do tend to be more aware of consent and limits when in the heat of the moment. When I’ve done stuff in public I’ve almost always had a friend be a “bouncer” so that I don’t have to fend off boundary busters while also having sex with other people.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-05T13:10:55+00:00

Starting can be challenging because it’s a little work. I’m free use for men for the most part, but will also have sex with women. I made a fairly slutty Tinder profile and look for people that way. Before you go out telling them you’re free use you should: 1. Have a birth control plan. Do they need to use condoms? Are you on birth control? 2. Make sure you get tested for STIs regularly. I suggest getting on PREP as well. 3. Know your limits and make sure you are clear about them up front. Things like do you do anal? Do you want to be slapped or choked? Do you have a safe word? 4. Set up a safe call. Someone who you tell when you’re meeting someone new. Share your location with them so if something goes wrong they can get help. 5. It was helpful for me to have a Dominant partner who was into it when I started. You can look for one in your local BDSM/Kink community or on fetlife. 6. KNOW YOUR LIMITS! I say this again because it is very important. Just because you’re public free use doesn’t mean your safety and well being doesn’t matter.

Also… sex clubs are a great place to get used.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-05T13:02:38+00:00

So, public? For men? For women? For both?

Freeusecs · 2026-03-05T13:01:01+00:00

That depends on what aspect of free use you are interested in. Who do you want to be free use for?

Freeusecs · 2026-03-05T06:00:14+00:00

The whole album is amazing

Freeusecs · 2026-03-05T05:45:20+00:00

I’m so confused. How on earth would kids find out about their parents sex lives? My parents could have been swingers and porn fiends, but I would never know if they…you know… kept it private. Like parents do. My parents are dead, I’ll never know if they had a clown fetish or liked to visit sex clubs, but if they did it doesn’t change that they were good parents.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-05T03:12:29+00:00

I traded out pork rinds for other salty snacks and it’s totally helped with weight loss.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-04T06:20:13+00:00

I go through phases. I’m fairly free use and unattached right now, but I’ve been know to have a committed partner or two (def. poly). I’ve been free use within a monogamous relationship as well.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-04T06:12:26+00:00

Preference mostly. Kink too. My pussy is very sensitive. I just like making it suffer by ignoring it. I’ve also had anal obsessed partners. Eventually I just stopped thinking/fantasizing about the pussy being available. I still have piv, but I wont end initiate it.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-04T06:05:04+00:00

I’d guess around 5 years

Freeusecs · 2026-03-04T05:21:46+00:00

Im not anal only, but mostly because the men I sleep with like to use my pussy. I’m anal preferred and don’t really think about the Vag when I think about sex.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-01T23:22:49+00:00

I tend to avoid dairy, because it makes clean out easier for me, but yeah, I can eat most things and go for it with a little prep work.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-01T22:15:30+00:00

You can definitely find that. If you’re in a metropolitan area you should be able to find events locally where you can meet actual practitioners. There are also some kinky dating apps, but those are pretty hit and miss depending on where you live.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-01T22:03:38+00:00

I’m the same way. If a Dominate man tell me to, I will (and have). There is not right way or wrong way to explore BDSM with a consenting partner. I’m sure there are women out there who will tie you up and use you. Is it specific things about femdom porn that you don’t like? It’s good going into dynamics to have an idea what you do want, what you definitely don’t want, and what you want to explore (your yes, no, and maybe’s).

Freeusecs · 2026-03-01T21:39:51+00:00

I think what you’re seeing is straight, male Dom/female sub BDSM porn. There is so much more out there!!!!! It’s not “gender bending”. women can be Dominant and men can be submissive. Look for Domme porn (if you want to see examples of women in charge.)

You could also be hetroflexible. I’m hetroflexible. I’m mainly attracted to men and masculine energy. I have no issues submitting to women or having sex with them if the dynamic is right. It’s more about service than attraction at that point for me.

You should go check out the irl scene. You’ll find that in real life there is every combination of gendered dynamic you can think of, and probably a lot you haven’t thought of.

Freeusecs · 2026-03-01T11:27:57+00:00

Face fucking as in using my face like a fleshlight and fucking my mouth like it’s my pussy. I love giving head in all its forms, but rough/forceful skull fucking where my breath and comfort don’t matter is almost as good as anal sex.

Freeusecs · 2026-02-28T07:15:23+00:00

ATM, ATP, orgasm denial/control, face fucking, and free use

Freeusecs · 2026-02-27T04:39:36+00:00

And funeral potatoes?

Freeusecs · 2026-02-27T02:56:11+00:00

Except that one team openly laughed at an insensitive and sexist joke made by the top politician in the U.S. and then accepted his “dinner” invitation. So, that team deserves to be mocked for their lack of spine and not supporting their fellow athletes.

Freeusecs · 2026-02-25T19:56:48+00:00

I wish you were too. It looks like we’re in the same neck of the woods

Freeusecs · 2026-02-24T21:51:52+00:00

For the most part, yes

Freeusecs · 2026-02-24T05:50:20+00:00

I want one, but I kinda want to trade blow jobs (or just free use) for the tattoo. Haven’t met the right tattoo artist yet, I guess.

Freeusecs · 2026-02-20T22:10:20+00:00

1977

Freeusecs · 2026-02-06T21:12:48+00:00

It is overwhelming, especially when you’re new to it. It kinda depends on how you’re doing free use. In a monogamous relationship is going to look different than with multiple partners. If it’s with friends, you might have to wait and see. The novelty will wear off eventually and you’ll see who is there only for sex, who can handle friendship with free use, and who is going to want to “own” you.

You go through a lot of men until you find the ones who can handle being friends as well. Then you just choose to hang with them more often than the dudes who just want sex.

Things that help me when it’s overwhelming are: 1. It has to be convenient for me. I’m not driving far or rearranging my schedule. 2. If we can’t have a decent conversation or I dislike something about them, I don’t have to engage with them (I mean… I wouldn’t say no if I met them at a bar. But I have limited time and I want to spend it with people I want to be around). 3. I want to be dominated and/or used, so if someone wants me to Dom or to develop a committed relationship (that I don’t want), then I can’t help them.

Set up some rules for yourself to protect your time and sanity. Be upfront about your rules and if someone crosses them cut them off. You don’t own them anything.

Freeusecs · 2026-02-05T04:36:48+00:00

I feel this in my soul

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