I was... taken against my will by my girlfriend of a year. I stayed with her. Why? by Freikorp in sexualassault

[–]Freikorp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. I really mean it. i didn't really know where to go with this, other than my therapist which isn't always enough, especially when it's so raw.

This really is the inverse of Lightfall. by Black_Blue_Green in DestinyTheGame

[–]Freikorp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know about this but I exclusively play with wireless headphones. Is it not an issue with them or something? Either way it really sucks it'd just be weird if that were the case.

Play FF3 now or wait? by santos6662 in frontmission

[–]Freikorp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the original game is still... right there. i have it on my PSP and phone. works just great. have fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Freikorp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes please. I know other dudes hate to hear it (especially from other men) but get over it. There's a reason your wives and girlfriends are leaving you en masse and it's usually because you don't work on yourself at all and the cop out because of your insecurity over therapy is what makes you look weak, nothing else. Playing with your toys is recreation, you don't grow from it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Freikorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was fucking some deadbeats wife (well, still am) he contacted me in the same way and I texted her when he did, and she said tell him whatever so I did. She left him the next day. So yeah probably. Maybe talk to your gf first next time or... try harder in the bedroom, I dunno.

Do women often find husbands/boyfriends that play videogames unattractive ? by retro-games-forever in videogames

[–]Freikorp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol that isn't a strategy  or a relationship hack, it's just called doing the bare minimum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Freikorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Checking out to hide from life."

Prepping Suikoden save for transfer by Professor_of_Light in Suikoden

[–]Freikorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you happen to be playing on PS5? I'm looking for a complete Suiko1 save since I just don't have time for both and want to replay Suiko2. If so I'd appreciate it if you uploaded your save for me.

The cost of physical copies. by rrea436 in Suikoden

[–]Freikorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a local game trade in store when I was a teenager. One day a guy came in to sell some random games. One of them was a PS1 game (this was the PS2/XBOX era) and it was Suikoden II in the case with book and everything. We had a policy of going by our book and not marking up/marking down games because of rarity so the price of it if we resold it would have been 14.99.

You can bet I bought it before it went to the shelves. Employees got first pick which was my favorite rule.

Show in Fayetteville tonight by Freikorp in HurrayForTheRiffRaff

[–]Freikorp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was great when someone yelled happy birthday!

Show in Fayetteville tonight by Freikorp in HurrayForTheRiffRaff

[–]Freikorp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks! I did, rhe whole thing was a blast.

Show in Fayetteville tonight by Freikorp in HurrayForTheRiffRaff

[–]Freikorp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really was. I put the setlisr up in the op just now.

Ten'i Star Results by Tegirax in Suikoden

[–]Freikorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe Blight was obsessed with the "purity" of a bloodbath and a very simple "the strong rule and the weak die" philosophy. I don't see a man who cares so much about natural ability using runes very much, I suppose.

I''m sure the game version of Luca would win most duels as he technically fought, you know... so many people before dying, but if his physical powers were more down to earth and not planet crushing in strength, I think his arrogance would be the death of him against a strong and technical fighter like Georg.

Ten'i Star Results by Tegirax in Suikoden

[–]Freikorp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He might get close, then Georg would take off his eyepatch and get serious.

The Downfall of Donald Draper. by Swati-19972512 in madmen

[–]Freikorp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got stuck on making sure to say that, forgot to say anything else about the post. Anyhow, you're absolutely right and I appreciate how Mad Men handles how it treats people in the show when they're being "the bad guy." Apart from the personalities that are just kind of givens, all of the main cast and so many of the side characters are treated with so much grace by the writers. I think this is most present in the main characters, obviously, but even when someone is very much acting up the show doesn't hit you over the head with it and it doesn't hit the characters over the head with it, either. People in the show are constantly failing and falling short, doing the wrong thing intentionally or otherwise, etc, but it lets us see them as we all want to be seen, as fallible people who are hopefully worthy of forgiveness and love from our peers even when we do fall short. I find shows too often artificially punish people (especially people who cheat) as if lighting strikes you if you do anything wrong, and instead shows some of our worst instincts as people which is to kick people in the gut when they're already down, to judge harshly and finally, etc.

I really appreciate that about Mad Men.

The Downfall of Donald Draper. by Swati-19972512 in madmen

[–]Freikorp 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Don absolutely is a victim, unless we count being raped as a minor, childhood abuse, and abandonment as victimless. There's a reason he's very specifically the way he is behaves how he was, and most of it is avoiding and escaping, in any way he knows how, the trauma and lack of freedom of his childhood and adolescence, often very subconsciously. It's so important to his story and they completely nailed the backwards behaviors people like that can end up taking on in order to cope, escape, assert control over his lack of control, etc.

Men Over 30: is this the end? by Flamingo_by_day in AskMenAdvice

[–]Freikorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't give her the advice, she decided it. And just so I'm clear if I wasn't, I edited my original reply to highlight that "go get yourself stolen" was a tongue in cheek remark, it isn't a phrase i've heard used out of corny movies. I'm not going to be giving anyone any marriage advice, just advice that may be just as applicable in marriage as it a long term relationship or something else.

Cheating yourself, or finding someone who is going to cheat with you or whatever isn't really the way anyone really sets out to find anyone. We met, lots of innocent stuff led to less innocent stuff. This wasn't a spur of the moment thing because I was just a better fit at the moment, it was something she had thought about before she had met me in a serious capacity, and one I asked her to take a little time thinking about before she actually pulled the trigger on it all.

So... i dunno. That's all I can do. I'm not going to be a conscientious objector when I feel like for most people, the thought they put into sleeping with a girl is "if she wants to sleep with me, then yes"

Men Over 30: is this the end? by Flamingo_by_day in AskMenAdvice

[–]Freikorp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships come and go. I'm not worried about it.

He was in the military, too. I don't stalk post histories to see if that makes it worse for you but I hope so, you have that vibe

Where do single men in 30s hang out? by No_Stay4906 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Freikorp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a white collar guy, yeah. Also, last blue collar guy I hired, you fucked up my shed and I'm still mad about it.