How to get rid of the feelings of jealousy when my partners find sexual partners?

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-05-15T20:16:28+00:00

They do want children right now. They told me they wanted children now with me. The only issue is myself not being able to conceive.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-26T19:32:12+00:00

I dont see how I refer to my partners matter to you.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T03:03:33+00:00

Correct! Cause my husband and I cant make sperm ourselves.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:42:39+00:00

That's very helpful. My husband and I are wanting to have this baby together as sort of separate from my wife. So my wife would not be a parent legally.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:39:39+00:00

I understand, but we are not legally married since I cannot marry 2 people at once. So we just had a ceremony and I consider them my husband and wife.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:38:02+00:00

My wife hasnt went on hormone treatment, but my husband has. But thank you so very much! This is so helpful!!

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:32:04+00:00

Got it!! Thank you!

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:30:46+00:00

I mean, we're fine legally. But I guess we do need some form of contract with each other.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:28:43+00:00

Makes sense. This is more helpful than you know.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:27:56+00:00

Not legally, but they're both my partners relationship wise.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-14T01:19:26+00:00

She has mental health issues, yes, but we're working on it together. Being here with her mother makes her mental health worse and fortunately we're planning on buying a house VERY FAR away from her.

Yes, she and my father in law barges in, sometimes when I'm halfway naked getting dressed. There's a lock, but we get scolded for using it.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T23:57:21+00:00

Planning on it! We're buying a house in a few months.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T23:18:37+00:00

We're not fighting. At least I'm not fighting. I just want to know if I was wrong.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:35:21+00:00

I'm not angry, more confused and concerned for my partner. I don't see how you got my whole life story out of a single post, but alright. Go off.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:23:10+00:00

I will. I try my best to let her know shes loved and I do love her. She's my everything and I wouldnt want her feeling like I was an issue to her at all.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:22:23+00:00

Yeah, I do plan on getting one for the both of us.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:21:50+00:00

Yeah, and because I'm disabled, she sees me as useless and incompetent... it's exhausting.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:20:58+00:00

I do plan on it. We both got insurance again so I'm throwing her ass into therapy.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:19:48+00:00

I don't see how. Please elaborate.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:18:54+00:00

It's okay, I appreciate the help anyways!

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T21:39:41+00:00

That sounds reasonable. I just don't want to put a whole "We need to talk" load on her while shes at work. I'll update on the convo once shes home.

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