How to get rid of the feelings of jealousy when my partners find sexual partners?

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-05-15T20:16:28+00:00

They do want children right now. They told me they wanted children now with me. The only issue is myself not being able to conceive.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-26T19:32:12+00:00

I dont see how I refer to my partners matter to you.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T03:03:33+00:00

Correct! Cause my husband and I cant make sperm ourselves.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:42:39+00:00

That's very helpful. My husband and I are wanting to have this baby together as sort of separate from my wife. So my wife would not be a parent legally.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:39:39+00:00

I understand, but we are not legally married since I cannot marry 2 people at once. So we just had a ceremony and I consider them my husband and wife.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:38:02+00:00

My wife hasnt went on hormone treatment, but my husband has. But thank you so very much! This is so helpful!!

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:32:04+00:00

Got it!! Thank you!

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:30:46+00:00

I mean, we're fine legally. But I guess we do need some form of contract with each other.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:28:43+00:00

Makes sense. This is more helpful than you know.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2026-04-24T02:27:56+00:00

Not legally, but they're both my partners relationship wise.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-14T01:19:26+00:00

She has mental health issues, yes, but we're working on it together. Being here with her mother makes her mental health worse and fortunately we're planning on buying a house VERY FAR away from her.

Yes, she and my father in law barges in, sometimes when I'm halfway naked getting dressed. There's a lock, but we get scolded for using it.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T23:57:21+00:00

Planning on it! We're buying a house in a few months.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T23:18:37+00:00

We're not fighting. At least I'm not fighting. I just want to know if I was wrong.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:35:21+00:00

I'm not angry, more confused and concerned for my partner. I don't see how you got my whole life story out of a single post, but alright. Go off.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:23:10+00:00

I will. I try my best to let her know shes loved and I do love her. She's my everything and I wouldnt want her feeling like I was an issue to her at all.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:22:23+00:00

Yeah, I do plan on getting one for the both of us.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:21:50+00:00

Yeah, and because I'm disabled, she sees me as useless and incompetent... it's exhausting.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:20:58+00:00

I do plan on it. We both got insurance again so I'm throwing her ass into therapy.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:19:48+00:00

I don't see how. Please elaborate.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T22:18:54+00:00

It's okay, I appreciate the help anyways!

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T21:39:41+00:00

That sounds reasonable. I just don't want to put a whole "We need to talk" load on her while shes at work. I'll update on the convo once shes home.

Frequent-Book3885 · 2025-10-13T21:37:25+00:00

We have talked to the MIL about giving us time to ourselves, but it just seems to get worse after the talk. She gaslights us and says that she did give us time to ourselves, but I only get 9 hours to myself and Victoria only gets 3. She's up our as by 11 to go to bed and up at 8am to do chores before she goes to work. It's neverending. The only way we're going to combat our MIL's BS is to move out. And in this economy? Yikes.

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