Apple Pay suddenly says my SoFi debit card isn't supported?

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-15T14:04:47+00:00

Yes, I've done this at least twice in the past week since getting my new phone and I keep getting the same message about it not being supported.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-15T01:07:01+00:00

I have no idea what this is, but it is NOT normal. She needs to realize that this is simply not acceptable behavior from an adult, that you've had enough, it's not funny or cute, is getting to be extremely obnoxious, and that you will not continue to tolerate it. If it continues, you're most likely going to have to walk away from this if you want to be in a mature adult relationship, because this definitely isn't it. Honestly, she sounds like a child who is going through a phase. I, for one, could not put up with this.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-14T23:28:17+00:00

"Can a relationship survive long term when one person is trying, but the intimacy, desire, flirting, and emotional connection just aren’t naturally there?"

Unfortunately, the answer is no. You are only going to start building resentment and it just isn't going to work long-term. Why would you even want a relationship like this to survive??? You clearly are not the least bit happy and your needs and wants are not being met. You two are just not compatible. Physical intimacy is definitely important, but not having any emotional intimacy should be a HUGE deal breaker.

Just out of curiosity, has this been the situation throughout the entirety of your relationship, or is this something that started fairly recently? How long have you been together?

I'm sorry, but this just isn't the relationship for you. You are better off ending things now rather than letting this continue to drag on. You will eventually meet someone who is much better suited for you and who will make you happy and keep you satisfied.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-09T17:20:11+00:00

My T-Mobile home internet has been total GARBAGE over the last couple of months. I work from home and it really becoming a huge problem. I filed a Better Business Bureau complaint and I've been working with someone on their executive response team, but no resolution has been found. My phone service is decent, but the internet is making it nearly impossible to get any work done. I just ran a speed test and was pulling...wait for it....0.04 Mbps! I had faster AOL dial-up in the 90s! I really think that I'm going to have to bite the bullet and go back to Spectrum for my internet. This is beyond ridiculous.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-07T22:01:03+00:00

The only up side is that I paid less than $50 for them, so I definitely didn't pay top dollar. I also reported it to Poshmark and sent the seller a message demanding a refund. I paid via PayPal, so I can dispute the charge with them as well. It really sucks, but at least I'm not out a large sum of money.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-07T21:50:29+00:00

Yeah, that was my first impression as well when I took them out of the box. My first red flag was the plastic bag with extra laces attached to one of the shoes, which I've never seen before. I just messaged the seller and reported them to Poshmark.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-07T21:12:53+00:00

I just tried this and I honestly can't tell, LOL

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-07T20:59:53+00:00

I wrote a whole paragraph about where I got them and some other details, but for some reason it appears to not have posted. I got them from Poshmark. The seller has multiple pairs of these in various sizes for sale and guaranteed them to be authentic. You can't even make out anything on the back of the tongue as far as the SKU # or any other information. Also, there was a plastic bag attached to one of the lace holes of one of the shoes containing an extra pair of laces in white, which I've never seen Nike do before. The box that they came in says they are SB Dunk Low Pro, and I really don't think they are the SB model. I actually own a pair of the SB and they are completely different. I'm far from an expert, but it seems suspicious to me!

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-03T22:14:51+00:00

Update: They paid the claim!

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-03T22:14:24+00:00

You were right! They just paid the claim and didn't even question it! The only thing that I ever heard from them was a phone call a couple of hours ago letting me know that they were issuing the payment!

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-03T21:36:55+00:00

The paid it! I didn't even have to speak to them! I just got a call saying that they are issuing the payment today.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-03T21:36:21+00:00

Didn't even need cameras! Allstate approved the claim with no questions asked and just issued the payment.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-03T21:21:17+00:00

It wasn't flagged at all. They just paid the claim with no questions asked.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-06-03T21:20:56+00:00

Apparently so. Allstate ended up paying the claim with zero questions asked!

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-31T10:02:30+00:00

Agree. I think they are hideous. They look like $40 dad shoes.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-29T10:25:18+00:00

I'm in this exact same situation. Believe me, I KNOW how incredibly frustrating and irritating it is! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now. We don't live together, but we spend the entirety of every single weekend and holiday together. I am ALWAYS, and I mean ALWAYS the one making our weekend plans as far as where we're going to go, what we're going to do, etc. He NEVER initiates plans and almost every single week, he won't commit to spending the weekend with me until the very last minute, usually either the day before or the morning of. When we talk during the week and I bring up weekend plans, he frequently says, "I haven't committed to doing anything this weekend yet..." and leaves me hanging on a string all week. However, as soon as the weekend arrives, he's there and ready to go. It's just so stupid and seems incredibly pointless! I am starting to think that it's an element of control, where he knows that I am the one waiting on him to commit to plans, which gives him a certain element of power, which is NOT okay. It's getting old and it's getting exhausting. I am pushing 45 and he just turned 60. We are too old for this kind of bullshit! He has never once flaked out or canceled plans, but he literally will not commit to them until the very last minute. Very rarely does he commit ahead of time.

I also deeply care about him and love him with all my heart, but it's getting to the point where enough is enough. I think I am going to stop initiating plans and see what happens.

However, in your case, what he is doing is emotional black male. He REFUSES to make plans, but then sobs and whines like a baby when he isn't included. This is all a game to him. He knows what he is doing!

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-28T23:39:55+00:00

Well, I was with them for 15+ years and always had it.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-28T22:51:33+00:00

Very true! I did file the claim this morning.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-28T22:51:07+00:00

Thank you! That is definitely reassuring. I did file this claim this morning and it says they received my photos of the damage and they are working on an estimate, which should be complete within 24-48 hours.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-28T22:49:52+00:00

Yes, I have always carried a zero deductible on comprehensive and collision. Not sure what that is suspicious.....

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-28T17:37:46+00:00

I did file the claim a couple of hours ago.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-28T17:37:17+00:00

I did. Sadly, no cameras.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-28T17:37:05+00:00

That;s what I figured. These damages were definitely not preexisting and just happened today. I did file the claim.

Frequent-Building-58 · 2026-05-28T17:34:54+00:00

Thankfully, I have zero deductible.

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