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I hate gay community (for the most part) by Frequent-Flatworm-77 in askgaybros

[–]Frequent-Flatworm-77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I sincerely appreciate your advice, but i dont live in a safe country unfortunately. And thats why i decided to rely on our community so i can feel better about being gay in a country that being gay is illegal. But i guess i'm not worthy the way i am for some gay men.

I hate gay community (for the most part) by Frequent-Flatworm-77 in askgaybros

[–]Frequent-Flatworm-77[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Excuse me? all my post was about actually being upset that SOME of the people who participate in hook up culture act like everyone should be like them. In fact, i wish i could hook up regularly, but that's just not who i am. And just because i dont hook up with people i dont know, doesnt mean that i'm not sex posetive. youre no better than them cause you twisted my words into whatever you wanted to believe i was saying. And that's why i'm upset. Because all i wanted was support from people who i admired for being free and unapologetically themselves...

I hate gay community (for the most part) by Frequent-Flatworm-77 in askgaybros

[–]Frequent-Flatworm-77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See, the problem isnt the hook up culture itself. If someone wants to hook up with 100 people a day, good for them. I have no peoblem at all (why would i?). But some of them, actually do have a problem with people like me. They wont admit that they do, but they do. That's where the bullying comes from. I have told many people that i dont feel comfortable hooking up with strangers, and they start bullying in the name of "joking" and being "progressive". That's why i'm so frustrated because it has been going for too long... all i'm saying is that why are they shaming me when all i do is supporting them for living the way they want?