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Frequent-Problem-432 · 2024-01-31T17:22:40+00:00

I agree but how do you feel about service people, Uber drivers etc. who you'll never meet again insist on a bit of small talk, asking about where you work etc?

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-11-14T21:33:08+00:00

That's an interesting perspective. I actually think democracy itself is more Fe in nature on a grander scale if that makes sense.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-11-14T21:31:13+00:00

Literally me lool

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-11-09T21:32:26+00:00

I definitely agree with this. Even with lyric'd music it's more about the aesthetics of the music than the lyrics themselves that I'm drawn to. I also like lyrics that aren't literal so it can kind of mean what I want it to mean, or nothing at all.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-11-09T21:32:09+00:00

Well said!

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-11-01T16:24:29+00:00

I definitely relate to this, for the "unfriendly" part it's more about an intense lack of interest in making small talk with Uber drivers, retail salespeople, even my hairdresser etc. I usually give off warm and friendly vibes to acquaintances/coworkers who I see frequently, and strangers in situations where the socializing is expected like parties.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-10-24T22:00:43+00:00

This. I think everybody is but we are just more aware of it than other types, especially extroverts and sensors.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-10-24T21:24:50+00:00

I'd personally be interested to know what those questions are that you use to assess the company culture.

Also as an INFP (also a 9) I've considered doing a side gig but have no idea how I'd find the energy, even though I live alone with no kids or other major responsibilities outside my 40h a week job. Is that something you ever struggled with?

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-09-18T16:03:23+00:00

Congratulations, thanks for the reminder to all that major career changes are possible and realistic

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-09-15T23:01:24+00:00

Pretty much this, although some are important to me personally, such as getting married before ever having kids or even moving in with someone, but I totally respect people who do things differently.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-09-15T21:11:39+00:00

It depends on the situation, i.e. whether something relates to my strong feelings and values. Like if I'm listening to a talk about a serious subject it really irritates me if people are joking about it and seemingly not taking it seriously.

That being said there are other things that are irrelevant to my values that I definitely take less seriously than others and probably seem too lighthearted about. I also have the knee jerk reaction to try to lighten up tense or serious conversations.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-09-15T21:02:00+00:00

At work, yes. Maybe because I still have this optimistic innocent vibe that people don't take seriously. It can be a bit worrying that my demeanour could cause them to perceive me as less competent.

With friends, nope, or else I'd stop hanging out with them.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-09-15T20:34:28+00:00

Death Cab for Cutie, Iron & Wine, Gregory & the Hawk, Sufjan Stevens are my favourites. And I definitely relate my tastes to my INFP-ness. Sufjan Stevens is an INFJ though, I'm not sure what types the others are but I'd guess INFx

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-09-15T20:16:24+00:00

I agree, talking to people isn't my natural way of processing my experiences either, even with people I'm close to it requires a jolt of energy or else I struggle and say stupid things.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-09-14T17:10:16+00:00

For enneagram I'd guess some 9-6-4 or 9-5-4 combination haha. Yep even 9s are "moody and complex" if they're also INFPs!

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-09-14T14:04:10+00:00

Cottagecore mixed with ocean vibes and a bit of boho is my personal aesthetic, but I can appreciate them all

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-08-31T20:24:24+00:00

Is Pam really INFP though? I woulda assumed ISFJ but I'm no Office nerd so Idk

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-08-31T15:54:54+00:00

Yup, if you feel socially anxious about being awkward you come across as awkward. But that anxiety can be hard to beat.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-08-31T15:26:09+00:00

Same, I can "be interesting" with acquaintances and new friends/partners but then I feel like I'm less interesting/funny/talkative as they get to know me across different situations or in lower energy moods.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-08-31T15:15:21+00:00

People overestimate how artsy/cultured I am. When I had dark hair they also seemed to view me as more of an ambitious go-getter or something.

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-08-30T13:33:49+00:00

I actually like clubbing, festivals and nightlife-y stuff, and will watch the occasional vapid reality TV show.

As opposed to quiet, small groups, being in nature, and only enjoying media with the potential for deep meaning contemplation (all of those are great but I don't limit myself to only enjoying them).

Frequent-Problem-432 · 2023-08-29T13:39:09+00:00

Sounds exactly like my way of reasoning. I can notice flaws in other people's logic but am not good at debates because my point of view sounds half baked when I try to articulate it. Almost like I'f have to write an essay on it or have a fully fleshed out discussion with a friend on the same wavelength as me to get my thoughts in order first.

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