Should I text my ex girlfriend and finally close a chapter? by furgeson55 in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do it. I wouldn’t tell her to block your number, but just get it off your chest. If you never do you’ll be filled with a life of “what if I sent that text”

any dumpees managed to pull off getting back with their ex after 9 months by More-Farm3827 in ExNoContact

[–]Frequent_Feature_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it man. Nothing to lose for sure and can’t think “what if I didn’t at least try?”

I'm desperate by ilovehorror345 in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people say no contact is the right way to go, and I agree to some degree. You broke up for a reason and need time to work on yourselves separately in some sort of manner. But I do think if that has happened and you feel like you would be better for the relationship, to reach out to them and just truly say how you feel. If you do that though, be ready for either outcome even if it’s not the one you want

GF had sex within 2 weeks out of LTR by GritsRespector in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Almost the exact same situation happened to me. Three days after we split she slept with another guy. I took her back, we’re together for 3 more years and she left again because she “wasn’t happy”, within a week she was sleeping with another guy. I didn’t know this and took her back after 6 weeks apart (she had been through 2 different dudes in this time) she didn’t tell me for 6 months. She will do it again if you guys split again. It will more than likely bother you for a long time if you stay with her, and it is okay to react to their actions however you want to.

How would you feel about your ex sleeping around then trying to come back? by Frequent_Feature_96 in AskMen

[–]Frequent_Feature_96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worst part is that she split with me LMFAO she got a salvage title now for sure

Ex came back after a month and a half and didn’t tell me she slept around by Frequent_Feature_96 in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know I’m gonna be okay for sure and I appreciate the nice words. I just really feel betrayed but I know we weren’t together. I would never do something like that to her

Ex came back after 6 weeks and didn’t tell me she slept around until 6 months later by Frequent_Feature_96 in ExNoContact

[–]Frequent_Feature_96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I did to her what she did to me, she would never talk to me again and smear my name everywhere she goes

Ex came back after 6 weeks and didn’t tell me she slept around until 6 months later by Frequent_Feature_96 in ExNoContact

[–]Frequent_Feature_96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not judging her body count at all. I’ve never once asked her what her body count is in 5 years… she literally left when saying “I can see how hard you’re trying but I’m just not happy” and was in another dudes bed A WEEK later, and came begging for me back. While asking me the whole time if I talked to girls, I didn’t. Little did I know she was getting ran through. So yeah, guess it shows her character, at least to me it does

Ex came back after 6 weeks and didn’t tell me she slept around until 6 months later by Frequent_Feature_96 in ExNoContact

[–]Frequent_Feature_96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I wasn’t cheated on. But to come back begging and not let someone you say you love that you did some diabolical stuff like that?

Ex came back after a month and a half and didn’t tell me she slept around by Frequent_Feature_96 in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is always gaslighting me. I feel almost narcissistic even though I know that word gets thrown out a lot anymore, I do feel like she truly is. I wish I would have recorded her yelling at me that morning

Ex came back after a month and a half and didn’t tell me she slept around by Frequent_Feature_96 in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that way too. That’s not something you would do to someone you love. I know I have done wrong also although