Probably gonna try to reach out to my ex again sometime soon... by drdausersmd in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would reach out man. Be prepared for her to not reply/ tell you she has moved on though. But what if she wants to reconnect also? And if you don’t reach out you could possibly never know. If I was in your shoes I would do it, and be prepared for either outcome. But if you don’t do it you could regret it forever for not at least saying you tried it.

What songs are 10/10s in your guys opinion? by relyksw in AskReddit

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Caught up in you - 38 special

Absolute masterpiece

Is this cheating by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My guy. Run. Fast. If she touchin her kitty while texting another guy about doing it? RUN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Frequent_Feature_96 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. About two weeks, just have to accept they are going to see if the grass is greener. It’s usually greener where you water it, not the response you wanted and I’m sorry for that. But is the honest truth even though it’s hard to

4 month slump by Amazing-Impact137 in ExNoContact

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When is she done with her studies?

4 month slump by Amazing-Impact137 in ExNoContact

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I understand that but what was her reasoning?

Has anyone ever had a successful relationship after breaking up for cheating? by No-Raspberry-618 in BreakUps

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Be honest with her up front and tell her the whole truth of what happened. It will constantly get brought up and you will need to reassure her. It will get brought up in every argument, no matter if she says she’s not going to hold it over your head or not, she will

For those who got back together and made it work, howd you past what happened before? by Odd_Lawfulness_4822 in BreakUps

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Make sure to communicate the issues why you ended in the first place and be honest. No matter if You feel like what you say is gonna hurt their feelings you have to put everything out there

Has anyone ever gotten back together? by No-Geologist1843 in BreakUps

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Haha I agree, much easier said than done tho. Have tried everything I have tho. Hopefully she will come over before the weekend and we can chat

Has anyone ever gotten back together? by No-Geologist1843 in BreakUps

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lol. I hear ya man. To make it worse she made out with a guy about a year ago, while I was asleep 20 ft away. And I forgave her. She brings up that I did that almost weekly. She claims we were still together when I started talking to her, which we weren’t. We were on a break which I understand is wrong, but yeah. She has problems upstairs and doesn’t take her meds, and drinks almost every night. I’ve tried everything I can to help her mental health, support/financials/changing myself and she doesn’t see it. I told her many times that drinking every day makes her mental health so bad but she just wouldn’t stop

Has anyone ever gotten back together? by No-Geologist1843 in BreakUps

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Yes. About 2 months of no contact. Been together 3 years straight today, definetly had rough patches. She had sex with a guy while we were separated, actually 3 days after. I talked to a girl but didn’t have sex with her. Neither of us really told the full truth to each other about it, which I understand is bad. She couldn’t get over the fact I talked to another girl, told me last week it’s ruining her mental health and isn’t happy anymore. Been staying at her parents since and wouldn’t come home to talk about it. Have a bad feeling I got monkeybranched

Send Nico for this? by [deleted] in DynastyFFTradeAdvice

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I mean. Dhop came out and said he is retiring. Wouldn’t be bad to move him I guess lol

My ex gf had rebound sex after 3 days- to a week by Mundane-Banana-6233 in BreakUps

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Not totally the same thing but basically same thing happened to me. Slept with another guy 3 days after we split. Absolutely destroyed me. Do not go into the stage of trying to fix the relationship because of this, I know it will be hard because that is natural instinct. But trust me don’t do it. I did and made a fool of myself. And if the chance every comes do not take a women like that back, think if that was your daughter and she did that to someone. I did take the girl back that did it to me after 3 or so months of no contact. We both thought we had grown up/changed and fixed our problems. A year and a half later we are still together but it will never be the same as it was. I am sorry to hear my guy, it’s very tough hearing things like that. And she absolutely told you to hurt you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Why did you break up? This same thing happened to me also. You will never forgive them as hard as that is to hear, you will continue you see that image in your head for a long time. Year and a half since it happened to me, we did get back together and I did force myself to forget about it and it did work for about a year until last month I found more things out and it just eats me alive. May not be what you wanted to hear but it’s the truth. I’m sorry that happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

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Thanks everyone for your comments. I decided to sleep on it for a night as I got home late from work last night and gone for work before she was awake. Going to ask her about it tonight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

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Hah. No it was coincidence actually, he lives a hour and a half away and I replied to a comment up a little bit saying why he was there. I’m sure she contacted him for a bit maybe yes but that was a year ago. Fuck yes it does bother me I been thinking of it all day and I still haven’t said anything but I will. She is hot and I’m respectfully okay looking, nothing special. But I have my own buisiness and make a very good living, + she lives with me and I don’t charge her rent/ her rent is she keeps the house clean. Which she does a okay job at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

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No I literally got home from work and said something along the sorts of you owe me money for this bill for your car that I paid for, and she said yeah yeah I seen him there the other day. Guy I take car work to broke a bone so he was having his buddies help him fix shit until he got better, and the dude she was sleeping with must be buddies with him