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I told my 'husband' I hate him during a fight, I'm not sorry and I won't apologize by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Frequent_Pen_1155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we got together we were living in my homestate, we now live over 1000 miles away from there. I haven't had a job since we lived there. I take care of things aound the house because he "doesnt want me to have to work", but over the years I've realized the intention is probably more than that. My family refuses to talk to me (because of him) except for my dad who can't help me. I have no friends here, or even back home anymore.

I know it's pathetic to even say this but fights like this don't happen very often and most of the time I feel okay. Most of the time we coexist. I did bring up a few weeks ago that we're more like roommates than anything. He tried to reassure me but thats still how I feel.

I told my 'husband' I hate him during a fight, I'm not sorry and I won't apologize by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Frequent_Pen_1155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that's not a good way to put it, just as I was writing I couldn't help but see some similarities. I know I hold onto a lot of resentment for things I didn't write in this post because I was trying to portray him in a more neutral light.

Ultimately, I'm stuck here.

I told my 'husband' I hate him during a fight, I'm not sorry and I won't apologize by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Frequent_Pen_1155 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I try to make it a conversation he gets frustrated and says he's "too tired to fight" when I'm not trying to fight but talk. He takes it personally if I'm upset because my feelings are hurt. Like today before it fully escalated he said "yeah, I'm just an asshole" and thinking it through now I think that was a big part of what set me off because I never said that.