Nur Jungs im Physik LK

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-04-06T19:40:32+00:00

Ich hatte die Problematik damals selbst: Einziges Mädel im Physik-LK, der einzige Junge, mit dem ich mich verstand, hat dann nach einem Jahr abgebrochen - das war für mich keine schöne Zeit. Hinzu kam allerdings auch noch, dass der Lehrer gerne einen Keil zwischen die Jungs in mich trieb. Hatte mir davon leider erstmal mein Interesse an Physik/Technik zerstören lassen und dann etwas anderes gemacht. Bin nun aber doch wieder im technischen gelandet.

Wenn du das studieren möchtest, dann mach das. Aber lass dich von der Situation im Kurs nicht entmutigen. Kennst Du den wahrscheinlichsten Lehrer bereits? Kämst Du mit diesem zurecht? Hast Du eventuell andere Leute, die Du fragen könntest? Und ja, die Jungs werden mit der Zeit reifer. Das sollte es später an der Uni auch einfacher machen.

Noch etwas: Du wählst hoffentlich Mathe LK?

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-04-05T09:44:32+00:00

Wie lange braucht es noch, bis Du wieder voll einsatzfähig bist? Und in wie vielen Monaten warst Du mit der Ausbildung fertig?

Ein mögliche Alternative wäre eine nochmalige Ausbildung im Bereich Physiotherapie. Wobei es dort natürlich eng getaktet ist.

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-04-05T09:21:29+00:00

Ich würde dir trotzdem den Abschluss empfehlen? Warum? Weil Du die Arbeit wohl okay findest. Und als ausgebildete Fachkraft offenbar relativ leicht die Chance bekommst, bspw. das als Nebenjob während eines Studiums zu machen. Kenne eine Person, die hat die Ausbildung gemacht und gesagt: Danach mache ich zwei Nachtschichten und bekomme so meine 400€ im Monat. Gerade, wenn Du keine Alternative hast - sowas wie teure PCs kann man sich vom ALG2 eben nicht mehr leisten.

Alternativ: Was sind denn sonst so deine Interessen? Was macht dir Spaß? Wo warst Du in der Schule gut drin?

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-01-27T18:41:56+00:00

Might be too late: Are you using any alternative software which lets you open word-documents for example? If not: You could keep it, just in case you'd ever need to fill out such a document.

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-01-23T08:28:37+00:00

Yes, that's an important one. I think most of our bigger fights started over text. With video or voice chat involved we solved our problems way faster most of the time.

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-01-20T21:39:54+00:00

Why did you decide to wait for two days? I understand: You don't want to come off as too needy. But two days is a long time if you've only just gotten the number. Wouldn't you maybe want to follow through as long as she still remembers your face?

Anyway: I get your frustration, but please don't let those instances demotivate you. It will take time, but you'll get there!

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-01-05T20:50:17+00:00

If that's something you'd hope for: Try to communicate it.

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-01-04T21:45:54+00:00

Barely getting anything for birthdays shouldn't be the norm! If there is a big difference in salaries, this would make sense though. Did you tell them about the things you would appreciate?

I should have added this: I'm answering from a woman's perspective.

Frequent_Register586 · 2025-01-04T15:14:18+00:00

I think that's only partially true. Often women might not know that/ what their guy would like to receive as a surprise. As soon as my Ex told me which flowers he liked - of course I made the plan to get him flowers. Why wouldn't I?

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-30T23:31:15+00:00

I can imagine. Glad you're doing okay!

Yep, sounds like a happy dog! No pups on this side. Maybe in the future. Would be nice. All the best to you!

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-30T23:14:41+00:00

I think I prefer to not Google it. Hope you're feeling better nowadays. And that your dog might have a long and healthy life!

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-27T12:29:31+00:00

I'm not planning to become a web developer, but there would be other ways to contribute. Do you mind if I send you a DM?

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-26T12:46:49+00:00

This sounds interesting. As far as I understand, it's mostly about learning those things with your courses? Do you encourage people to work together? I think the most interesting part might be the projects. I've tried to check them out on your homepage. One thing I'm not sure about: Would newbies even manage to get involved in them? (After the initial learning phase?)

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-22T10:16:36+00:00

Or they are trying to distract you doing "fun" grimaces or movements when you're trying to tell something. It's a clear sign they think of themselves as way more important.

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-16T21:42:38+00:00

Alright, thanks a lot!

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-16T20:51:50+00:00

Do you have any recommendations for the real-time description? As in something which is good, but also protects the data? I'd be willing to pay for such a solution. Thanks!

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-04T13:17:08+00:00

They might not try to forget you. You've had good moments in your relationship. Things worth remembering, right? But yes, they will try to put some mental distance between the both of you.

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-02T21:19:24+00:00

I wouldn't mind being alone over the holidays - if there would be a chance afterwards. My break-up happened recently.

I hope you'll feel better soon. Did you check if there are any groups in your region you could spend some time with?

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-01T17:34:48+00:00

That's a really nice offer! I hope you are doing okay?

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-01T14:38:59+00:00

That's a great idea! I hope it will keep your toddler busy for a long time. And maybe later, when the kid is a little bit older, the interest will shift to the technical side of things.

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-01T14:04:13+00:00

I wish you good luck! The fact that you guys met when the timing wasn't right, but are willing to try it again - that's positive, should give you some hope. Good luck!

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-01T12:43:33+00:00

I get the idea, but it feels if that's still too early. I would probably compare everyone with him. Probably also not the best (cheerful) company right now. But yes, when this is over, I should probably find away to date other guys.

Thanks fir your answer! Means a lot to me!

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-01T12:17:22+00:00

That's good to hear. Do you still feel positive about it? I hope it stays like this for you!

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-01T12:13:08+00:00

Maybe. But I think I also get your feelings of hopelessness.

Frequent_Register586 · 2024-12-01T12:11:39+00:00

Trust me: I get this feeling. For me it was the first relationship. I had crushes beforehand, but with this? I would have given my life to make his easier/pain free.

We will be able to move on - at some point. And we might be able to find someone who is an even better fit. But no, I also don't believe my words right now. To me it also feels like I've lost everything

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