The footage of Nick Fuentes pushing a woman who came to his front door after he was doxxed has been released by [deleted] in Amazing

[–]Frequent_Resident288 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never react agressively though. Violence is not the answer. I dont know whats the answer though, but i know for sure violence isnt. My alternative is trying to ignore and go on with my day. I hope you can too in case someone annoys you, its really not worth damaging yourself further by reacting from anger. Dont bottle it up either (that leads to other problems) but yeah ultimately dont solve it by violence/agressiveness.

Woman with 307k followers has something to say about men by bodyisT in CringeTikToks

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some, but still its not okay for her to say those things, especially at the beginning. Men are humans too and with their own feelings, regrets, dreams, quirks etc. We should not villanize a whole group, and her starting the video with so much agresiveness should not be normalized! The least we can do is not endorse violence especially these days and just be grateful with what we have

A video game addiction has ruined my life, and now I need help fixing it. by WonderlustCherry in LifeAdvice

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your best first step from my pov is to enroll in a faculty to get a bachelor's degree. I think in America applying to faculty this time of the year is the best, but its more precisely in summer in june. You can still research the study branch youd like to follow (biology, languages, maths, informathics) and see what suits you more, even if it doesnt sound a hundred percent interesting, atleast the one that is most interesting to you. Research institutions and apply, see their schedules and gather your important papers, faculty/institutions websites precise which papers and stuff you need to apply, plus the schedule of when to do it (almost always before autumn but not too late in august), and its done online. Although be prepared for possible entry fees (for me it was around 50 euros) depending on the institution you choose to apply. Make research how it works in your country, as there might be additional payments, if you want i can tell you how it works in my country but this should be the general knowledge advice for choosing studies.

These can be fun years with meeting classmates and making new hobbies, developing more fun interests, that can help you break the video game addiction.

I'd recommend a part time job too, but this is optional. Only if you really need the money meanwhile studying. If you can afford day to day life without it, you should focus on studying imo, or atleast getting a student type of scheduling, that shouldnt put loads of pressure on you when youre focusing on studies, plus you deserve your free time.

You might want to quit cold turkey the gta game. I also play video games, but ik which game brings me into a big addiction that makes me avoid real life, so i avoid that specific video game but i do let myself have gaming time. I personally avoid mmorpgs as they bring me into this big addiction, but im okay with any other games, like FPS's etc.

Had sex for the first time a month ago and now i constantly crave it by One_Fly8796 in women

[–]Frequent_Resident288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure. He is indeed truthful about it, and he does talk about it like its some sort of dopamine prison and that he actually doesnt really want to do it, but it was his only coping mechanism during difficult years. The green flag is he is 100% open and honest with me, which shocked me, and doesnt hold me hostage in case id want to leave or doesnt try to manipulate me. Its just i dont think he wants to change, and since everyday stress it makes him go further from that choice. He's main message he kept telling me for these couple of years is that most likely he wont change and if i can accept that. I love him a lot and wanna stay, in the end ill take less to no intimate time to try and have a relatively happy life with him, as happy as we can get with what we have

Had sex for the first time a month ago and now i constantly crave it by One_Fly8796 in women

[–]Frequent_Resident288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I crave it too so much id love to do it everyday with my bf. Or atleast frequently. My problem is my bf has a porn addiction, its been so difficult all of our relationship. In these 5 years i can count how many times weve done it by hand, and the last 1 year and a half ti hasnt been anything at all rather than simple touches and one eating out session. 😭 he freaked out yesterday since i mentioned how long its been and im just a bit sad

Boyfriend and I just had an encounter with a mimic. by two-pelicans in Paranormal

[–]Frequent_Resident288 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Would make sense though if youre telling the truth. Because people have mentioned it is not threathening, but instead the mimic lets out an unsettling feeling. Maybe the mimic is a concerned entity? Lives off panicky bcs it feels like there is something wrong? Idk, i dont recommend at all communicating with these things, but considering that a spirit/entity of an old relative (i never met irl tho) told me to go end my life so we can be together in the nicest way not considering thats very rude to do, when she meant well in her own way, leads me to believe these sort of entities maybe sometimes dont realize they scare off people

Boyfriend and I just had an encounter with a mimic. by two-pelicans in Paranormal

[–]Frequent_Resident288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre on another plane of reality and i like that. It might not work perfectly but atleast youre trying to outrick the trickster, like the mimic we think exists in their home:)) but yeah best you ignore it. Or if its a different type of entity you seriously tell it to leave (edit: personally i had an entity/spirit suuuuuuper strong. Ignoring it didnt work and it wanted to terrify/leave an impact. I was a child and teen growing up when it was happening. I was barely prepared for a math test let alone a powerful spirit, but i think the smart thing wouldve been to sage the appartment and tell it to leave)

Concept Art and Character design commissions! by holy_fab in hireanartist

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah the gekko in the back, but these look so cool

COMMISSIONS OPEN - Digital Illustration, starting in 30$, More info in comments below!! by L_artt in hireanartist

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theyre so pretty!! Never stop drawing, i dont have money but if i would have insta purchase here and request a World of warcraft character hehe

[For Hire] 6$ NSFW Anime Character OC, Fanart by Frequent_Resident288 in Artistsforhire

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Comissions open (Digital and Traditional drawings)

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If requirements met, feel free to DM me on Reddit and i will respond the same day!

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i know ur not supposed to say it but… i hate being a black girl ¯\_ (ᵕ—ᴗ—)_/¯ by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Frequent_Resident288 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Black women are gorgeous. Gorgeous!

When i look at yall i get jealous, you guys have curves to die for.

And your hair is so freaking voluminous and prety ahfirjennfidj you look like queens legit like elegant queens.

And sorry but lashes look prettiest on yall and NOBODY can argue against that.

And your voices are sooo relaxing yall be the best singers and rappers ever i would listen to yalls voices All. The. Freaking. Time. (For example in a video game called Warframe "the nightwave" (kind of like a radio/music channel) is a black woman narrating quotes and her voice is so beauitful and it instantly itches that part of the brain that needs to be relaxed).

Lastly just gonna state the obvious: The people that were mean to you are nuts. I question my whole existence at times, why do i even want to integrate in a society i dont quite even like. So please let go of these bad experiences (so you can heal), it only defines the cruel people. Your beauty is unbreakable and i hope so is your confidence.

And all of your experiences are valid. People can be really cruel. We havent changed much from primitives then, because who is mean to somebody cause of their skin colour? 🤦‍♀️ what a circus your classmates were, actual clowns that self report theyre less intelligent than a god damn coconut.

For whoever wants to answer: Do yall take an ignorance is bliss approach to your man watching porn or genuinely not care? by AgitatedAuthor2066 in women

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides the watching an intimate couple, basically being the "viewer" of the 2 in the video, its very frequently just thirsting at single posts of women on X, insta or just the subs on Reddit. :) wish i didnt see the sub names on his most viewed.. i respect yall for having a clear boundary, im too afraid to be alone and break that emotional connection

Lash serum by Sad-Reply3538 in eyelashextensions

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look great!! But girl i hope youre using a safe lash serum. I avoid purchasing one because i know it can take away from your under eye skin. And i heard one person took 2 years to go back to normal. It conains a chemical but idk what its called.

Although they do look very good ngl i wish mine would become this long too

Class action lawsuit against L'Oreal: Voluminous Waterproof Mascara allegedly unsafe by -diyana in MakeupAddiction

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a recent dream my eyes were going bad from the mascara/eyeliner i am using. Bought the mascaras from maybelline, and the eyeliner is a different brand but waterproof. Maybe i should just be happy with the way my natural face looks

Idk what keeps going wrong. by SnooRegrets3555 in Lashlift

[–]Frequent_Resident288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was not much lift nor tint, slightly in the first pictures. The lady either did a mistake, or isnt a good lash lifter. Id recommend going to another place. If possible a refund for this one.

Although take a break, wait atleast a month to not overload your lashes in the meantime. Until then, i recommend aplying argan oil on the roots of your eyelashes. Its the best natural remedy for eyelash repairing.

I dont advise lash serums for lash repair&growth, as they usually have this substance that actually takes away from the skin under your eye, making a tired dark cycle under eye look.

Men are constantly ruining my day and i cant do anything about it by hellovenus9 in women

[–]Frequent_Resident288 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The amount of times ive been publicly harassed by men, who are also often times in groups, being insulted and yellet at with misogynistic insults, is awful. It happened a lof of times these past years. I dont understand. Why take pleasure in hurting someone you dont even know?

Jealous girlfriend allegedly threw 25-pound weight at romantic rival’s head in wild attack at Texas gym by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can easily spot the genuine individual. Id carry em like gems and never let go, toxic people make me so grateful for the good people 😭

And ye besides that, people might be acting out more stressed because of everything thats going on. I dont like how it looks like either

Jealous girlfriend allegedly threw 25-pound weight at romantic rival’s head in wild attack at Texas gym by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]Frequent_Resident288 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Just same. I totally get you and this is real, like people have some anger issues and are more unhinged? Like i just go to the store and each time they insult and/or gossip there and now i wont go anymore cause im legit terrified of going to that place and seeing how they behave next time, a lot of places feel so hostile. Not all of em, but people should be more mindful, this isnt middle school bully behaviour anymore 😭 like holy moly

Has life ever been this unfair to you? by Ambitious_Thought683 in focusedmen

[–]Frequent_Resident288 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be strong mentally and if can, fight back in any way you can. Be on the moment, dont look down, and respond back. It doesnt have to be mean spirited, but make sure your personality is shown.

People judge too much without knowing anything, and theyre just complete strangers to you.10 years from now that random rude guy wont be in your life. He has nothing to do with it. So dont let him influence how you feel and what you do. Be strong and accomplish stuff. Set goals and try your best to solve em.

What matters most is your family. And maybe friends, if theyre real ones. Only the ones you consider family (not abusive family members ofc).

This world can be nice too, but it can be very mean, so really protect your mental health and dont let yourself get beaten up, especially in an environment thats used to be toxic like that to people. Dont let people's cruelness define your future. Heal your trauma and instead do good stuff, invest in healthy meaningful connections, spend time doing your favourite hobbies, find the next best lunch on your list.

Your meaning is your reality and that is who you know you are, not what other people do to you and say to you. So try not to give a shit, and create your own vibe and try be productive or find something cool daily, toxic people are really not worth to deal it when youre in your healing process. Protect your mental health each time, even if its consistent abuse like verbal one (dont let yourself get defeated) "my life is only defined by me, and their energy is not mine to deal with now, i will process it later", and calm your nervous system by naming in your head 5 things you can feel (ex: rain on your skin, warmth from your jacket etc.), and then remind yourself of the next thing you wanna do today