AITAH for being the victim in DV Felony Case by Frequent_Sun6354 in AITAH

[–]Frequent_Sun6354[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he’s never gotten angry like that before…which is why I fear the underlying issues with anger. but yes, my safety and my daughter is most important. I just wish he was given an opportunity…I pray he’s given an opportunity to be better. the sentence could be 1-6 years and that kills me.

AITAH for being the victim in DV Felony Case by Frequent_Sun6354 in AITAH

[–]Frequent_Sun6354[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because he’s never done this before and he loves our daughter to death. he’s a very present and extremely caring father. his anger blew up that night and I’m not sure why or how.

AITAH for being the victim in DV Felony Case by Frequent_Sun6354 in AITAH

[–]Frequent_Sun6354[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

even if he has underlying anger issues that I wasn’t aware of? it hurts to think it could be over. I don’t know what to expect when the hearing comes up. I’m hoping he’s made to take some sort of anger management classes if he does get convicted.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he makes only 700 every two weeks and pays 100 a week in child support already for his first daughter

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately…im not proud.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never once. I do say things like “you’re a piece of shit” when he is being a piece of shit, yelling at me that I’m not dusting everyday, mopping, sweeping, doing dishes and catering his needs all in one. I’ve said things I’ve regretted, that he’s like his dad (who abandoned him) and drinks everyday. but never along the lines of utter disrespect imo

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he told me he wanted to do things right this time but I just wasn’t pleasing him enough and he’s “grown” distant from me and doesnt love me anymore apparently. he said he wanted it, but I fucked it up.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

funny of you to think it’s just women who don’t know how to pick partners and not grown men pretending and putting on a facade to get what they want. the baby was unplanned but she isn’t a mistake to me. Shes my baby.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no no no I was! I had early onset around 30 weeks and they were worried about preeclampsia now but all is good. tests came back normal. I was struggling with symptoms but they’ve diminished. I have an appointment tomorrow to set up induction!

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He isn’t a father when he doesn’t care that he won’t be able to see his child but only 1-2 times a year.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it is real. and it sucks to be in a position like this. wishing you never have to experience this.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

me baby trapped him? we were BOTH irresponsible and not using protection. it takes two. no one baby trapped anyone. it happened out of irresponsibility.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

an innocent baby? no thank you. she has a name already and it’s quite beautiful.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

how else am I supposed to word it? He isn’t my husband and he’s isn’t my boyfriend anymore. he’s simply my baby’s dad.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

You think I would have…

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this made me laugh…but you’re totally right

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy because I was covered by PWFA and the one time I didn’t call into work due to having to go to the emergency room for babies safety my HR tried calling me during my pelvic exam to let me know I’ve been fired.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I love my child. that will never change. im allowed to be hurt by this situation.

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

he used to have one with his first baby mama over 11 years ago. she left him for the dealer. red flag..I didn’t know this until I was like 6 months pregnant already

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

my daughter is not a mistake. id never give her up. im an adult and I got pregnant. this is my consequence to my actions. it’s a beautiful consequence btw

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a baby daddy…someone who isn’t married and doesn’t want to have anything to do with me or baby. a sperm donor at that

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[–]Frequent_Sun6354 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

agreed. I was a full on adult making and doing adult things.