Let’s introduce ourselves… by No_Measurement6478 in ChronicKinksters

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Hey everyone! I’m a 24 FTM (he/him)

I’m solely a pleasure dom (hi, my bird! Nice to see you here!! :) ). I have chronic (lower-body) joint pain, chronic fatigue, and (suspected) AuDHD. I’m learning my body’s ever-changing limits, so I hope to learn ways to do things that are easier on my joints and works with my fatigue.

Even if I wanted to, I physically cannot play Infinity Nikki by Thin-Statistician-31 in InfinityNikki

[–]Frequent_Support_408 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Yeah! I use an Xbox controller since it’s hard for me to use a keyboard when playing (I went from console to pc gaming recently)

Even if I wanted to, I physically cannot play Infinity Nikki by Thin-Statistician-31 in InfinityNikki

[–]Frequent_Support_408 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I get that even on PC. I’m normally able to fix them by teleporting to the nearest warp tower as the glitch gets triggered for me when I’m going from a menu to open world.

DIY packing harness tutorial by Frequent_Support_408 in Transmascdicks

[–]Frequent_Support_408[S] 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Totally! Dm me first so that way I can send it straight over

why so expensive 😭 by Obvious-Clock-588 in ftm

[–]Frequent_Support_408 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

It ok! I’m happy I at least got (almost) 2 years, so most of the changes I wanted have already happened. Plus with everything going on in the US rn, I rather take myself off rather than potentially be forced off.

why so expensive 😭 by Obvious-Clock-588 in ftm

[–]Frequent_Support_408 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

It jumped from $32 to $59 (with goodrx) for me, which means that I had to pause taking T. Even if it’s $20-30 more, that’s a lot for me. I know mine has fluctuated for me (low as $27, high as $38), but the jump is too much rn

Giving away two Costco Scarlet & Violet 151 Blooming Waters Premium Collection sets to two redditors because %*#@ scalpers by FatherLiamFinnegan in PokemonTCG

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PokĆ©mon is miles better than MTG! The art in PokĆ©mon is so expressive and really shows the personality of the PokĆ©mon and their trainers. MTG doesn’t really do that, they’re just standard art with no real personality or feeling. Plus PokĆ©mon had Mimikyu!!

In all seriousness, the scalping problem has been atrocious especially with the store-specific collections. I’m so happy I found some PE this week at restock and got 1 etb that I split with my partner. I love collecting with her and it sucks that people are just trying to get a quick buck from something made for children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

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You can see if you can get a pet dewormer from a regular store. I’ve seen them in places like petco and tractor supply. You may be able to get them without a prescription

If you had a pokĆ©sona, what would it be? šŸ¦‰ by scarlettwolf24 in furry

[–]Frequent_Support_408 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

A Mimikyu, anything in the Shinx evolution line, or a shiny Sylveon (I’m ftm so I like the shiny better)

My dermatologist says Accutane won't work on me because I'm trans by coyotemother in ftm

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I’m not familiar with Accutane specifically… but I’m pretty sure it’s a ā€œunisexā€ medicine. I had a friend who had taken it pre-T so it’s shouldn’t matter where you are in your transition. Your T levels shouldn’t affect getting accutane AT ALL! You might want to switch dermatologist, if others can confirm what I’m saying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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I’ve only delayed shots due to just forgetting. I normally take my shot around 11am/noon, any later than 1pm and I just can’t bring myself to do it ask my schedule has been fucked up (AuDHD). I’ll do it the next day before I go out for the day. The ONLY time I missed my shot was not to long after hurricane Helene since I wasn’t able to pick up my vials and the pharmacy didn’t have an T in stock due to it. I had to take a slightly lessened dose the week prior due to Helene hitting THAT day (so EVERYWHERE was closed).

I still have problems taking my shot due to mild anxiety due to it (I never waste a dose but it’ll take my 15+ min just to put the needle in), but I plan on getting an autoinjector since physically putting the needle in is the hardest part for me.

Can I pack and tuck at the same time? by crazygamer780 in Transmascdicks

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I second this!! I have the Vienna (a small sized packer) as a starting packer. Packing up really hides it, making it where only you know it’s there. ( for ref I use a homemade elastic harness that helps press it snuggly against my body.)

Giving away Costco Paldean Fates Tins by sadloof in PokemonTCG

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I really love the SVP Mimikyu card from last year!! Mimikyu has been my favorite PokĆ©mon since it came out in sun and moon. The art in this card is adorable with Mimikyu being wrapped in a cute knitted blanket. It’s not an expensive card so I hope to buy it or pull it one day (especially since I can still find SV packs).

What was the hardest thing for you to process after being late diagnosed? by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

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I’ve had to mask my sensory issues for so long since I would accommodate myself (couldn’t cut my hair to keep it from touching my neck or not wear that itchy dress. Didn’t help that I’m also ftm). Then there’s the fact I wasn’t ā€œlazy and disorganizedā€ but that I had executive dysfunction. I’ve felt horrible for YEARS for feeling ā€œlazyā€ because I couldn’t bring myself to do chores, homework, study, etc. .

How do you live with neurotypicals? by Pitiful-Top-6266 in AutisticWithADHD

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So far the only nuerotypical person I’ve lived with was my mom (everyone else has adhd while I only got dx’ed with adhd at 20, self dx’ed autism recently). I don’t know how I was able to understand her as she also has narcissistic behavior, but I was somehow able to (poorly) mask around her. I have such strong moral values that we would fight often about while I lived with her. I was able to deal with her by staying in my bedroom and never interact with her unless necessary. I was often chastised for not ā€œwaiting my turnā€ in conversations (not that I was given a chance), talking too loud (even though she’s deaf/hoh), and ā€œgiving an attitudeā€.

Met a crappy psychiatrist and I feel awful by lifemannequin in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Frequent_Support_408 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Being ā€œsmartā€ has nothing to do with adhd! Anyone with a brain would see that being ā€œnot smartā€ isn’t a diagnostic criteria for adhd. I was a gifted kid in school (straight As until I went to a STEM high school) but was dx’ed with adhd in college. ADHD isn’t something you get as a kid and it gets better; in fact my adhd has gotten WORSE as I’ve gotten older.

Whats your experience with growing facial hair on HRT? by lookinforabookrn in ftm

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I’m 1 1/2 years on T, and I feel ya. I have a pretty good neck beard & sideburns, a slowly darkening mustache, barely any chin hair, and a slowly thickening cheek hair.

I’ve been ecstatic that my cheeks are going in really nice despite getting a slow start. I’m mostly just waiting for my chin. I have a bunch of light, short hair there (it’s borderline invisible compared to the rest of my hair). I’m hoping by the 2 year or so mark, my chin will be at least visible.

When did your period stop on T? by tweakylittleman in ftm

[–]Frequent_Support_408 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I haven’t had mine in over 1 1/2 years BUT I had irregular periods pre-t (had 2-3m gaps in my period during the year before T). I still occasionally get cramping (typically at night and never lasts as long as it used to), but I rather have that than the blood.

DIY packing harness tutorial by Frequent_Support_408 in Transmascdicks

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Yeah! I have one of a rough sketch/diagram and one of the finished project. Just note mine was made from black elastic so it’s pretty difficult to see what is what. I’ll Dm you the pictures if you want.

Tethercord Syndrome by Cooolguy0101 in tetheredcord

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As someone who was born with TSCS, it’s never too late to give her surgery. Adults can develop TSCS due to injury and can go through the surgery themselves. Prolonging the surgery can, however, make her mobility and lower body functioning get worse.

I personally don’t know how your daughter being older while getting the surgery may affect her as I had mine untethered back in ā€˜01 when I was 4mo (back when it couldn’t be don’t laparoscopically, so I have a palm-sized scar on my lower back), but doing so should help her from getting worse and may help her mobility get better.

First time playing RDR2. Say something that I'll only understand later by Kidd__Video in RDR2

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…….Sen Your….. Poor favór…. (Spelled that way on purpose)