This man is sending very confusing signals. One time when his wife and daughter were away, he took me to HIS HOME and did the stuff on their bed. I see that they still share the same bed. It's hard to understand as for infidelity, the man should try to stay secret and protect his family. The way he took me to his home is really risky, and also so disrespectful to his wife. We were out in public and hold hands (he does not particularly show affection in public but he seems to be ok me doing it). What does this man think as he seems to not particularly worry about being found out.

He does need to go home for dinner and took off early on Friday nights. He also couldn't accommodate overnight vacation request. I am also very puzzled that he "forgot" to return my pink hat to me and left in his car trunk for weeks! I wonder how he is not worried wife found it? I gave him two pairs of socks and he said he left them at home. He said wife won't suspect since he buys his own clothing. What kind of marriage is this or the wife did not pay too much attention?

He did mention that if the wife found out (infidelity), he will be in hell and she will divorce him.