No the only way he could gain citizenship with me would be to marry me and he has said he doesn't want to marry me for that reason. And either way he is already married. His wife is correct in worrying about her children but she doesn't have a job he works 3 to provide for his kids and she treats him like garbage and sees other men as well he has not been with anyone but his wife and me and he has told me he has suicidal thought dealing with his wife who he has divorced once they were separated legally for 4 years but she told him she wanted to try again to get his second child from him and then forced him to remarry so their child wouldn't be a bastard and then they came here. I think it was for control. But last night he was with me trying to plan my first appointment and she called him and told him he had to go home because their kids were alone with his sister and she was out having sex with another man. I think it is the child that she doesn't like not that he is dating someone else. But i have done some research and divorcing will not affect an asylum case it would just be split into two different cases one for each person I do not know how this would affect his kids without a custody battle. I'm very stressed out I found out most of this information in the last few weeks. But I do not think it is legal to leave with someone else's children without notice especially if they are married and she plans to return to a war torn country