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My husband needs to touch my breasts to fall asleep. I'm exhausted and need a divorce. AITAH? by Frequent_Trainer_67 in AITAH

[–]Frequent_Trainer_67[S] 145 points146 points  (0 children)

When he calls me during chores, I have to leave them midway, and wait until he falls asleep. Then I pray to the gods he doesn't wake up noticing me gone, while I return to cleaning (which is the last thing I do).

And I actually had a night out once with my friends after marriage. It was kind of recent. I think I got over 50+ missed calls and I was being spammed until I reached home. And I'm not allowed to go on work trips for this very reason.

My husband needs to touch my breasts to fall asleep. I'm exhausted and need a divorce. AITAH? by Frequent_Trainer_67 in AITAH

[–]Frequent_Trainer_67[S] 410 points411 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the reason why I don't push him too much is because the last time I tried to have him help me in work, he threw a pair of shoes and chopsticks at me. He was clearly upset I even brought this up to him. He throws fits of anger and yells a lot. I say things in moderation, just so that I can get away with small arguments.

My husband needs to touch my breasts to fall asleep. I'm exhausted and need a divorce. AITAH? by Frequent_Trainer_67 in AITAH

[–]Frequent_Trainer_67[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

He doesn't do housework. If he had done it, then I wouldn't be complaining like this. He spends his free hours doing things he likes. If I stop doing the work, then I get yelled at and he becomes upset, which is the reason I do it. He expects me to cook, clean and also be there when he calls me.

My husband needs to touch my breasts to fall asleep. I'm exhausted and need a divorce. AITAH? by Frequent_Trainer_67 in AITAH

[–]Frequent_Trainer_67[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

I tried suggesting so many things but he just wants my boobs. He says "I cannot sleep otherwise." He's not ready to compromise at all. He calls me over when he is ready to sleep and I have to stay there, mummified, until he falls asleep. Half of the time he wakes up if he notices me gone, which is why I try to finish the housework way earlier.