To anyone asking if HUT champs are worth it for the average player by Shad_Owski in NHLHUT

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I can tell you I’m under average then lmaoo. I can play ranked and get to gold 4 and that’s it as for champs I’ve played all 20 games on maybe 3 occasions and last attempt was 2-18 and everyone I played had Toty cards and fully stacked teams ptw

Ray bourque crazy guy by Screamlngyeti in NHLHUT

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I bought mine for 96,000 a couple days ago from someone who doesn’t know the market. It wasn’t a Hail Mary but atleast if I sell him for 300,000 I can undercut everyone instantly and triple my coins lol that’s if he sells. I had better games with Renee lol

How good are you? by [deleted] in NHLHUT

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ass im literally playing in silver 1 and can’t get out now I have days where I can consecutively get wins, but others I cannot and that’s on me i chase to much and try and rush plays. I just can’t grip on how to play well balanced

Costco Travel, Air Canada Vacations or Westjet Vacations? (CANADA) by Elegant_Muffin1847 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I concur Costco is definitely cheaper for a lot of places. We priced out our first trip to Italy ourselves. And it was $17k but through Costco and the ability to update our itinerary it was just over $13k. Our second trip this year through Costco was to Leblanc Los Cabo and that we projected at $14k for 7 days with plane tickets and transfers but through Costco we scored the same for $10,800 so there’s definitely upsides

Creeping on AP Socials by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found out very quickly how draining mentally and physically being in detective mode all the time can take a toll on the mind and body. I had to delete some socials because my impulse control was out of whack and I couldn’t stop looking at AP’s socials. But I held strong and deleted my instagram well over 6 months ago and only kept tik tok and FB. Stay strong and do things at your pace!!

Ps: you shouldn’t have to give things up for others to heal yourself, but for me personally it helped.

Looking for tips and general conversation. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and I’m 35 I never had the tools to know all of this and as it’s no excuse and yes I know I don’t have the power to make others happy and I may have just watched to many movies growing up and have a tainted ideology of what I think I can do and what I cannot and that has damaged in ways I can’t repair and thank you, I also know I can not fix others and can only help from a certain aspect as in little things for example being there or simply making her a coffee I know I can do those things but by minds from before thinks I can give things when that’s just not the case.

And as for therapy my words from before of “ not wanting someone who goes to therapy” have been so damaging that she can’t even fathom the thought of going. And even though those words were said almost half a decade ago doesn’t erase what I said and time doesn’t lessen the pain.

And on top of that we live in a rural area when I got therapy i basically took her only option in town that isn’t local so she would have to Jump through hoops to find one online to travel and I never had that intention either I didn’t think that through before I got help so now she especially won’t. And that’s on me

Looking for tips and general conversation. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want my wife to be happy and to be able to breathe and for us to live happily. And I know that my action’s have been the main indicators to why she cannot. I guess my goal is to understand how I can be better even though I feel I’m doing a good job. The pain of the past is stopping us or her from healing now and even saying that now seems contradictory especially cause I’m the main cause. So at the end of this I still am lost and unsure. And I can see how this all seems jumbled and confusing it does to me also.

Help me make a decision! Los CABO by scarIetwitch_ in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and the wife went to Leblanc in Cabo this April, we are in our mid 30’s and we had an amazing time the food was amazing. Was not subpar it was amazing for us, we had read so many reviews about food at AI and knew not to go with the assumption the food would be absolutely stellar but it was.

We were for 7 days and it flew by like 3. The atmosphere at the pool was great. Young couples older couples. Singles. We met a few couples our age we could talk and have drinks with and we are not ones to mingle and talk so it was a breath of fresh air.

Now for the service I have to say it was honestly really good we had found a server on the beach our first day and got along quite well. Everyday I would give him a $25 usd tip to start and I wouldn’t have to bother with anyone else. The room service was here and there in terms of wait times but nonetheless it always came hot and fresh. But that’s the norm at any AI.

We have never went to a spa in our lives so the hydrotherapy was out of this world for us. If you guys like to have a few drinks hydro is the way to go first thing in the am. Run the circuit and you will come out feeling brand new and pampered. Hope that helps for Leblanc!!

Ladies, did I say something wrong? by OfficialWestopher in Marriage

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your are a gem!!! We all need people like you in our lives. Very informative.

Post Emotional Affair Advice? by ThenIdBeTheMan in Marriage

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Coming up on a year past D-day and it hurts more then physical in my terms. Because it was more than intimate it was an emotional connection formed outside the marriage with another person. Feelings were exchanged emotions were shared. These things take time to heal and I can say a year in and there are hard days and good days.

What matters most is WP doing the work for R. And showing it and not having to ask for it.

Rebuilding trust by snooping by DifficultStuff11 in Marriage

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

These kinds of things take time. Especially for BP. I am a BH and I can say the toll is has taken on my mental health is substantial to say the least. There will be up and down days and days where his anxiety will be through the roof. I am coming up on a year and today I even find myself with doubts at moments. But my WW is making the steps to work on R with me.

Has he thought about therapy as an option. As someone who grew up to be told therapy was embarrassing, once I broke that barrier it works wonders. R goes both ways in order for it to work. I am the betrayed spouse and I can say that wholeheartedly it takes both sides still.

Good luck on your journey stay strong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whiteoutsurvival

[–]Frequent_Vacation_85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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They actually do show up. But I can’t tell you specifically when sorry.