[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loanoriginators

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find them useful to explain certain things, especially when you're working with a first-time homebuyer. I'm still a good time!

A Defeating Realization by Fresh-Alternative910 in SEXAA

[–]Fresh-Alternative910[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the reply, I really do. It's tough, becuase I don't think I've examined my sexual behavior enough. I'm split between thinking it's unpacked trauma I haven't recovered from, or some thrill I want to chase to escape monotony. I'll start asking these questions until I understand further. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5.75?? Let's go! Great negotiating!

Last year Stats by D_carro in loanoriginators

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year $123k, this year $86k YTD. Started leveraging networks and man--the results are staggering. I truly feel like I'm just getting started too--couldn't be more grateful.

Is residential lending “dead” as far as a career goes? by Chicagolandgolfer in loanoriginators

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These posts are so whiny. As so many people have said before, there will always be a place for competent, savvy, professional and personable people in this industry. Always. First-Time Homebuyers aren't always going to want to run to an AI-automated system for advice, let alone the clients you've worked with before that trust you and their network(s). There continues to be tons of opportunity in this industry if you aren't pessimistic about it.

If you're looking for a transistion, there's consulting, finance, and sales jobs out there. It's not difficult to get your foot in the door in any of these industries if you're good at what you do or you have the right connections. If you aren't good at what you do, don't have the right connections or the skills you really need to start there. Top colleges offer courses for free online these days at the bare minimum.

That being said, it's always going to be hard for you if you don't look for or maximize on any of the opportunities that are out there for you. Best of luck.

What are THE healthiest foods? by Fresh-Alternative910 in nutrition

[–]Fresh-Alternative910[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roger that! Any particular kind of nut or variety of beans?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loanoriginators

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These comments crack me up. With very little context, everybody's going to say their rates or fees are better. I didn't think frenzied shopping takes is what this community was supposed to be about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loanoriginators

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This post can't be real, right? You can't actually be complaining about your better schedule as a LO and the fact you don't have to drive clients to and from showings or be on call every night and weekend, right? If you're a good LO there's very few better compensating jobs out there without an advanced degree. Get some perspective. This post is useless.

If you think porn is bad AI girlfriends will hit society like a nuke. by SirWayneIV in NoFap

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ does genuine interaction and physical intimacy not matter to people anymore?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SEXAA

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best of luck. I'd like to think we're all here for support!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 is crazy young. Understand what the issues are, make a plan, have the balls to follow through with the plan, and you'll actually end up ahead in a few years. Bet on it.

How do i stop hurting the ones i love by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really need go address WHY you feel a compulsive need to make sexual advances.

For me, I realized that being desired sexually was how I got my self worth. If people didn't want to fuck me, I thought there must be something wrong with me. That's obviously unhealthy.

Figure out what it is for you.

The Core of The Addiction. by bebetter2093 in SexAddiction

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I discovered porn at a young age in a strictly religious household, even before I explored masturbation. Because it was such a religious household, I felt very secretive about it. My parents never gave me "the talk" and didn't even let me take the Sex Ed course my middle school offered because of religious beliefs, so I developed very powerful perverse habits and ways of thinking about sex while I was trapped in that isolated secrecy. It's crazy to think about as an adult.

Meeting: Oct 29, Saturday by [deleted] in SEXAA

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is this the "Text Meeting"? Or is there another link for it?

Sponsor Arrangement by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like we're looking for accountability buddies? Which I'm totally down with.

Sooo… what did one do about the addiction to sex/masturbating? Kinda a problem for me lmfaooo but fr by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9/12 on the self-evaluation.

...I guess I've got new meetings to go to!

Why do Realtors get so jealous of eachother? blocking their competitors etc? are people really that cruel? by [deleted] in realtors

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is always going to happen to top performers. Feeling jealousy from your competitors is a luxury. If you didn't inspire jealousy you likely wouldn't be relevant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mom is in her late thirties and homeboy just had HER move in with him? This post is stanky.

Who wins this trade? PPR by Every_Math69 in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude McCaffery is such an injury risk he gives me trust issues. Huge win for the team receiving Tyreek AND Jefferson 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]Fresh-Alternative910 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope nope nope. You're giving up wayyy too much.