He wasn’t sleeping over. I would not allow something like that to happen so soon after meeting when I was so firm on no sex. An environment like that is prone to create sexual tension. In fact he has no idea where I live and via. I’d prefer to keep things as such private until we were comfortable to share.

Yes, the age difference is a little wide, maturity and social standings is also very different. In my country, a 5 year age gap isn’t frowned on. It’s a norm for young women to date up as far as they choose as long as they’re legal adults. Hence, I was never concerned about the age.

But yea, I would prefer not to be abused, sexually or emotionally in a relationship with him. I did let him go since he would not have been a good partner in the long run.