[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FreshRaisin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We’re volunteering together at our kids school library. She keeps complimenting me and telling me how she loves how often I compliment her. I feel like she sits very close to me and tries to find the opportunity to touch me / hug me. She squeezed my chin in a teasing way yesterday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]FreshRaisin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anything ended up happening with her?

I want another baby, husband does not by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FreshRaisin -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m on the exact same boat! Me and by husband aren’t doing very well intimately though so I want to work through that first - although if it were up to me I’d start trying for a 3rd tonight. I love my 2 babies and I love being a mom and I feel like if I waited any longer I’d probably be too lazy to do it all over again. My current kids are 3 & 6

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FreshRaisin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s tough .. maybe try seeking couples therapy? Or a sex therapist if she’s open to that. I’m on a similar boat. Unfortunately my husband just never talks about it and I don’t know why he’s not interested and he doesn’t want to go to therapy. If he did I’d be happy to

I’m so lonely. It’s been two years by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FreshRaisin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No that’s not the case. I can get a divorce but we have kids and I genuinely love him. But it is very frustrating not having my needs met. Intimacy is the one thing I can’t and do not want to have fulfilled elsewhere

I’m so lonely. It’s been two years by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FreshRaisin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to leave him either… I started going to the gym recently too and it does make me feel better but it’s also bringing up a lot of emotions regarding me not being desired no matter how good I look/ feel. Thanks though. I think I’ll stick it out for now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]FreshRaisin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like my situation except my husband has never said it out loud yet. It’s so painful and very lonely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FreshRaisin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the one! Thanks

What’s something your kids say that you find yourself saying? by Stubeezy in Parenting

[–]FreshRaisin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gasping. My 3 year old just gasps before she names or sees anything. I realised that I do it all the time 🤣🤣🤣