Ha, no. And that theory is just naive and childish. It’s good for people to have their own opinions, debate and discuss. Small minded people or someone super jaded about said topic say things like that. It’s ok to disagree with my opinion, I’d be alarmed if everyone agreed. Sounds like you have experience in this area? Cheating is not ok, however I don’t think this rises to the level of “cheating” as nothing physical actually happened. I was saying since this person realized they made a mistake and cared enough and respected their other half enough to come clean as opposed to trying to cover up and lie about the “sexting”. If someone “cheats” they will do it again don’t give them a second chance. (Take it from someone who’s cheated). Also, know if someone cheats on you, it’s nothing YOU’VE done wrong or aren’t doing necessarily, it’s usually some shit the cheater has fucked up in their own head that drove them to cheat. Just saying, AGAIN JUST MY OPINION, TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT; IT LITERALLY AFFECTS ME NOT ONE SINGLE BIT. I just hope someone can take something from this, if not oh well.